Cause for Concern

[archon8692]

So I started dating this religious girl that works at the place I work at. It's a large place.

She is very compassionate and caring. She cooks me dinner every day. She wants to see me every day. She texts me a lot. We spend a lot of time together.

Every once in a while she cries...not about me but about this ex-bf she broke up with a year ago and how bad he treated her. Or stress at work.

She's also still friends with her ex-bf on facebook and tells me he messages her links to articles...but she doesn't reply. He's also half the US away. They talked alot via text and Skype and spend very little in person time together and she said he was overweight and very critical of her.

It's a year later and she says she isn't over the emotional damage he caused.

Is there any cause for concern here? Do I just ignore it? I've suggested she block him on facebook.

 

[archon8692]

Thoughts?

 

[RangerMIke]

How old is she? Was her relationship with her ex-BF her first serious relationship? What is your relationship with her, have you slept with her? DO you think you are FZed? You say she is religious, but what is her religion?

Most importantly... what do you want? Why do you care about her?

 

[archon8692]

We are boyfriend/girlfriend.

She wasn't in many relationships. She's 35. She talked to this guy on Skype for a few months then drove half-way across the US to spend time with him...about 40 days.

Before him her last relationship was like 6 years ago. There was this guy in between that she hung out with then asked if he wanted a relationship and he said no.

She is very caring. Cooks for me every day. Supportive. Caring. Lots of great qualities for marriage.

 

[SAYNO]

So I started dating this religious girl that works at the place I work at. It's a large place. "BAD IDEA"



Every once in a while she CRIES...NOT ABOUT ME but about this EX-BF she broke up with a year ago and how BAD HE TREATED HER Do I just ignore it? I've suggested she block him on facebook."Did she listen"?????

SHHESH!!! This isn't rocket science dude.

You pretty much answered your own questions...

 

[Reykhel]

We are boyfriend/girlfriend.

She wasn't in many relationships. She's 35. She talked to this guy on Skype for a few months then drove half-way across the US to spend time with him...about 40 days.

Before him her last relationship was like 6 years ago. There was this guy in between that she hung out with then asked if he wanted a relationship and he said no.

She is very caring. Cooks for me every day. Supportive. Caring. Lots of great qualities for marriage.

Lots of great qualities for marriage? you trolling brah?

btw you said caring twice. Maybe she hasn't got that many good qualities that you have to repeat one of them.

So you've only started to see her....but yet you see her every day.

SHE DOESN'T SOUND LIKE A WHOLE LOT OF FUN DOES SHE? Fvcking crying cvnt at her age she needs to grow the fvck up.

two things:
1. don't make any suggestions regarding blocking the ex or fixing her problems. IT'S NOT YOUR CIRCUS, NOT YOUR MONKIES. You're getting sucked into her DRAMA FRAME.

2. She's crying out for lots of anal sex. Seriously. Religous= repression. Can't get over the past= repression. You need to unblock her and set her free.....she'll become hooked, gauranteed.