"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Caught out being a player, ohh the tears

S0LID

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I dont think it's being a player because we werent even official. Im just 1 down 2 grls left plus the candidates.

Lessons learnt-

1- tell her at the start you are meeting other girls (debatable)

2- Make sure their dam wires have no way of crossing.

3- never spend so much time with 1 girl so that she thinks you are a couple.

4- be careful who you tell. it's thin ice when your friends are friends with that girl, they can easily slip (as I now know).

I just txt the angry girl something like

"look hun, we werent even going out, I did like you until you did ___ which made it hard for me to trust you, Yes I meet a few girls and choose the one I like most, I was going to bomb the rest out to get with you but not after ____"


O well, rule 1, theres always another girl (or 10).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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haha! i just wish i have that problem one day. You're an inspiration to me man. :)
 

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My process went like this.

ugly- no girls
gym grooming- odd girl
basic inner game- few girls
more inner game- oneits, heart broken
more game knowledge- one slip, oneits, broken heart
more grooming, loads of game and inner game- 8 girls

it will probs continue to
more game, get a bit insecure- oneitis
go rock hard on game and become a master pua


My friend who I've mentioned before is the biggest player I've ever met. He hasnt even read anything on the subject. Through making the wrong grl fall deep in love he now has a threat off this girls friend. Now this grl is dam scary, shes been a bouncer, spent most of her life in jail for stabbing, glassing people, and shes currently on bail for fu--ing some1 up. She said she is going to difigure him. Scary eh?
 
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