I dont think it's being a player because we werent even official. Im just 1 down 2 grls left plus the candidates.
Lessons learnt-
1- tell her at the start you are meeting other girls (debatable)
2- Make sure their dam wires have no way of crossing.
3- never spend so much time with 1 girl so that she thinks you are a couple.
4- be careful who you tell. it's thin ice when your friends are friends with that girl, they can easily slip (as I now know).
I just txt the angry girl something like
"look hun, we werent even going out, I did like you until you did ___ which made it hard for me to trust you, Yes I meet a few girls and choose the one I like most, I was going to bomb the rest out to get with you but not after ____"
O well, rule 1, theres always another girl (or 10).
Lessons learnt-
1- tell her at the start you are meeting other girls (debatable)
2- Make sure their dam wires have no way of crossing.
3- never spend so much time with 1 girl so that she thinks you are a couple.
4- be careful who you tell. it's thin ice when your friends are friends with that girl, they can easily slip (as I now know).
I just txt the angry girl something like
"look hun, we werent even going out, I did like you until you did ___ which made it hard for me to trust you, Yes I meet a few girls and choose the one I like most, I was going to bomb the rest out to get with you but not after ____"
O well, rule 1, theres always another girl (or 10).