Cats... YES! THAT'S A RED FLAG! Lol.

[Johnny Alias]

So... this is rather funny. A friend of mine was dating this chick... all seemed well... she was attractive, made a good living as a dentist, and was a huge Bears/Football fan...

They saw each other for 2 months or so... and at one point he told me "Dude she's got 4 cats. Huge red flag." I didn't think anything of it at the time... but then her mask finally dropped and she WENT OFF on him during a trip to Chicago over something that was seriously not worth fighting about. He smiled, took her shvt for the sake of the trip, and then dropped her ass as soon as he got back here.

Then he told me... "4 cats dude! It means she trashes relationships and falls back on the pvssys for their unconditional love!" I couldnt help but laugh... and it was true.

Thing is this gal is 35... and the ones I've dated in this age range seem to be universally fvcked. They always have something going on... alcoholism, rage issues, personality disorders, clinginess, gold diggers.

I'm going to start going after the younger women. Those that realize they've had a good laugh partying but its time to get serious. These older ones... damn. Just repeating the same dance over and over again... until they're so beat up and used that NO ONE wants them.

 

[Don_Dom]

It would seem that the single/childless ones **** a brick in one way or another as the wall approaches 30-35 and it makes them bat**** crazy. The married ones **** a brick around 40-45 sometime around the time their youngest child leaves the house and/or they read a 50 Shades book and they cheat or get divorced or both. So I've noticed, at least.

Funny you mention that about cats. I came to a realization about 10 years ago that I don't get along with women who prefer cats to dogs, get deeply offended at the use of the word "*****" to describe female genitalia, and who are adamantly picky eaters. I don't hate cats, just prefer dogs, don't use the p-word around women a lot, and probably shouldn't care if someone is a picky eater or not, but I've just noticed that combination of traits has always spelled disaster.

I wonder if maybe I overthought all of that and maybe it was just the cats? Every cat chick I've ever known has been a tad nutty.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

She's 35 and single with a good paying job. That's a red flag right there..

 

[JohnChops]

ehhh ive had girls who had a cat/2 cats and they werent batsh1t insane like the one you describe here.

 

[Dgwizdal]

And girls who are obsessed with their dogs. I have a plate that wont leave her f*ckin dogs alone for more than 5 minutes. Always has to be holding them kissing them etc. And then she does the same sh*t with me.

I'm constantly having to tell her to get the f*ck off of me and then her feelings get hurt. BPD Co-Dependent much?