Catching feelings for "bad girls." Am I nuts? lol

[spiegel549]

I meet a really sweet girl recently. Great job, great family, educated, and cute. She has high interest and we share a lot in common.

Then I meet this HB a week later. Sexy as fuk. Mysterious. Desired by many guys.

I take both out on dates. I am 100% my outspoken blunt straight forward self. The sweet girl doesn't quite get me. The mysterious HB is turned on by my bluntness.

Long story short I just fuked the HB this weekend. Nows thats all I want. I am playing it the same way. Being 100% myself BUT the problem is the more I think about her pussay the more I want to contact, reach out etc. Now I don't and I haven't but I am getting tempted.

Meanwhile. The cute one thats better for me I pay not as much mind to lol. Something about this HB I can't explain....help me out here brooos

 

[narcissist]

I am the exact opposite. Cant stand girls that are "bad" or "desired by many" - to me they seem too stuck up, and most of the time they think they are the sh*t, which is predicated ONLY by their looks, not their intellect, personality, or other meritorious attributes. I am turned off by that. Not into girls that act as though the world owes them everything just because they are hot.

I like innocent cute girls WAYYYY more. The more innocent the better is my motto haha. I guess I like corrupting women.

I also find that innocent cute girls, more often then hot ones are actually more fun to chill with. But thats just my experience

My advice is, just keep doing what your doing. You know well, not to be needy by over contacting mate. Its pretty simple. Just continue being a boss, and keep surprising her with unpredictable moves to keep her on her feet and you'll keep getting in between her legs. She clearly is down. But over contacting is a surefire way to fvck that right up.

Good luck boss!

 

[jurry]

Men are attracted to confidence and mystery in women just like they are to men. Many men and women out there who want what they cant have, and dislike the "nice" guy or girl - grass is always greener and all that.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

She just makes the most logical sense. If I were to assume you were a girl and not a guy, then replace the word "she" with "he" in your post, it would be crystal clear that the first person you described is buried deep in the friend zone. Based on your description, I get the impression that the first girl would likely bore you to tears and frustrate you profoundly because you're not compatible; second girl gets you on a visceral level, but may frustrate the living daylights out of you too if your craving for her goes unrequited.

 

[JohnChops]

im not going to lie, I love the *****y bad girl type. I am not sure why , but its sexy.

 

[JohnChops]

I am the exact opposite. Cant stand girls that are "bad" or "desired by many" - to me they seem too stuck up, and most of the time they think they are the sh*t, which is predicated ONLY by their looks, not their intellect, personality, or other meritorious attributes. I am turned off by that. Not into girls that act as though the world owes them everything just because they are hot.

I like innocent cute girls WAYYYY more. The more innocent the better is my motto haha. I guess I like corrupting women.

I also find that innocent cute girls, more often then hot ones are actually more fun to chill with. But thats just my experience

My advice is, just keep doing what your doing. You know well, not to be needy by over contacting mate. Its pretty simple. Just continue being a boss, and keep surprising her with unpredictable moves to keep her on her feet and you'll keep getting in between her legs. She clearly is down. But over contacting is a surefire way to fvck that right up.

Good luck boss!

i always used to go for the innocent cute girls. however, when I finally got one of those girls I found out how boring they actually are. She was like dating cardboard.

 

[zorg198]

Let me tell you this - she's now mysterious and bad and blah blah blah... but after you catch her she's nothing than a wh0re!!! i had the same b1tch. i turned on and wanted her more than any other cute girl. this one made my life hell. a woman with a lot of male fans is a trouble . who needs that.

 

[GS750]

lost my v card to a bad girl...but found the girl next door type to be more my type. to each their own.

 

[spiegel549]

Glad to see I am not alone lol

Glad to see I am not alone with the bad girls trend haha. I wanna keep nailing her because it was great lol. Let me get your opinions on this...

New Years tonight. my birthday this weekend. Do I invite her out to either? Less is more at this stage and I don't wanna be too available. I want this broad asking me to get together.

I am a bit rusty with the desired bad girl type throw some game play advice. Thanks brooos!

 

[devilkingx2]

I meet a really sweet girl recently. Great job, great family, educated, and cute. She has high interest and we share a lot in common.

there's your problem. you didn't list anything that matters.

do you intend to debate the existence of the tachyon particle with her? no? then who cares about her education?

are you a male gold digger? then why does it matter what job she has as long as it's legal, not too difficult/time consuming and pays her bills.

etc.

so if you list a bunch of criteria no one cares about then the first girl is great, but apparently she falls short in what actually matters, hence your lack of interest.

Then I meet this HB a week later. Sexy as fuk. Mysterious. Desired by many guys.

interesting, you find this new girl to be really sexy. her attractiveness is something that matters. I can see why she has the edge.

 

[bigneil]

The reality is, the "nice" girl isn't that hot. I'd bet anything if we could choose between photos it would be no contest.

I suspect that you are choosing between an unattractive girl and a ho. You need to keep improving until you can get the hot, nice girl in the middle, but you want to believe you are already there and that your choices represent the complete spectrum of women.

 

[devilkingx2]

The reality is, the "nice" girl isn't that hot. I'd bet anything if we could choose between photos it would be no contest.

I suspect that you are choosing between an unattractive girl and a ho. You need to keep improving until you can get the hot, nice girl in the middle, but you want to believe you are already there and that your choices represent the complete spectrum of women.

precisely. you hit the nail on the head +1

 

[Bingo-Player]

Filthy, silicone-enhanced and eastern European is how I like them.

hahahhahaha


urrm no OP i completely agree and in a very similar situation myself atm

, the fact a chicks been around the block and knows the score dosent bother me the slightest

i once got involved with a chick that was "sexually innocent" she wanted to put out for me but didn't have the confidence to make it happen

the harder she tried the more she turned me off , i ended it a few days later.......

now I'm sort of stuck on this badass hb8 who can suck c0ck for hours

I'm going NC on her but fvck me one of the hardest things I've ever had to let go

 

[Dgwizdal]

I swear I cannot get away from the allure of the bad girl. Any good girl who wants me is just too fvckin easy and I lose interest very fast to the point of guilt.

A bit frustrating as I'm entering my late 20's and realize that bad girls don't provide for a healthy future.

 

[om1xr]

What you attract or what you are attracted to speak more about you than the type of the girl!

 

[spiegel549]

Glad to see we all have a little taste for the bad girls LOL...

This HB ever since we slammed last weekend her texts on "what am doing?" are coming in more often. Over new years she texted me happy new years, and then again in the morning asking what I was doing lol.

Honestly it really takes timing and thought on my moves with her. I think that's why I enjoy these type of girls. It's not easy and you can fuk up easily by over texting, or sending some pusie non confident response etc.

The biggest turn is on is seeing other guys hit on her, and spit this ridiculous game and her just respond bland to them like "oh yeah that's cool." :crackup: gives me a boner knowing I am the one fuking her.

Don't get me wrong, I am not pulling HB9's all the time, they are a once every few months for me lol but still its fuking HARD to keep myself from going goo goo ga ga over her. Like when she shows up ready to go out and the outfit she is in looks sexy as fuk and I gotta play it cool like its no big deal. That's what I love.

Anyone feeling me? haha

 

[Bingo-Player]

sounds like were banging the same chick :crackup:

 

[Bokanovsky]

The reality is, the "nice" girl isn't that hot. I'd bet anything if we could choose between photos it would be no contest.

This was my first thought also.

 

[Zarky]

Let's try a little experiment....

I meet a really sweet guy recently. Great job, great family, educated, and cute. He has high interest and we share a lot in common.

Then I meet this badboy a week later. Sexy as fuk. Mysterious. Desired by many girls.

I let both take me out on dates. I am 100% my outspoken blunt straight forward self. The sweet guy doesn't quite get me. The mysterious badboy is turned on by my bluntness.

Long story short I just fuked the badboy this weekend. Nows thats all I want. I am playing it the same way. Being 100% myself BUT the problem is the more I think about his **** the more I want to contact, reach out etc. Now I don't and I haven't but I am getting tempted.

Meanwhile. The cute one thats better for me I pay not as much mind to lol. Something about this badboy I can't explain....help me out here gals

Works pretty well!