"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Casual Dates?!!

Warboss Alex

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Dinner dates are awesome. If you agree to split the cost, and you KNOW she'll be watching her figure and won't finish her food.. all the more for you.

lol.. I remember once recently, I went to a steakhouse with my missus, I had a 32oz ribeye, steak fries and a salad.. she just had cheesey fries with bacon. Now this place had real generous portions, and my babe, she's a only a (cute) lil thang .. 110-115lbs at 5'6".

Guess who ended up eating most (at least 3/4) of the cheesey fries? :D

(I think she was disappointed I didn't leave enough for a doggy bag)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about a casual 30 minute coffee date? You can pretend to be David DeAngelo and tell her you gonna see if she can get qualified to be with you, if she's something you looking for or not. :up:

Coffee's alright, cheap, drink, talk, lean back. Don't talk all the time, let there be silence too, like she has to talk. If she's alright, do more, or schudule time for more. Tell her, I have time to go here or there now, wanna come? After that, take her home, I gotta wake up tomorrow but I guess you can come in for a few. :whistle:
 

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zerocelcius said:
I have looked back to places I have gone with girls. Exotic Food Diners (first time stuff), Adventure Stuff, Camping, Clubs, Parties, Car Show, Plays, etc.

I want to go Repelling or just Rock Climbing. Has anybody done this as a date and how did it go?
Skiing is also a cool date, although its hard to get a girl to commit to a 5-day first date that'll cost them $150. But as a 2nd or 3rd date, its great, even though having sex in the snow isnt as fun as it sounds.

I always love wild dates that don't cost much. Anyone got ideas?
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
Skiing is also a cool date, although its hard to get a girl to commit to a 5-day first date that'll cost them $150. But as a 2nd or 3rd date, its great, even though having sex in the snow isnt as fun as it sounds.

I always love wild dates that don't cost much. Anyone got ideas?
In one of those enormous lists I posted, it said "write poetry and distribute it to houses around your neighborhood." This girl I know said she was a writer, so I'm going to do that next with her.
 

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Nice!

I am looking at a resort-spa not to far from where I live. They have a $hit load of things to do. I think I am going to try that out too. But right now taking time off from dating. Doing a Self Focus. Hitting the Gym, School, Car, Music, My Business, etc.. No time for Dating.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Docs said:
You got quite the odd schedule there, but schools another spot to try to have fun with meeting girls. As for making time..Go to bed early, wake up earlier and have a little brunch with whoever you fancy for the day. You might think, oh no, I'm spending money on her, that's AFC, but when you think about it, for maybe...$14-20, you get a meal and a date. You'll waste more money on useless stuff then you ever will on dates and gifts for a girl, so live once in a while.
And if you're not getting any from a decent girl you may end up spending way more at a strip club or with a some slut so you can sleep with her. Spending a little cheese on a date isn't always a no-win.
 
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