"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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what do you guys think of the ebook " the secrets of the alpha man" i just got last week and it's almost 400 pages, so i was wondering if i should read it, and what you djs think about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i've read and listened to several products and i have just finished listening to the this cd series. i have only 100 more pages to go with the e-book.
i think that for the price, it's not a bad deal for the information you'll gain. however, i felt that it was longer than it had to be. there's a lot of unnecessary information and it drags. some parts were waaaaaay too technical and didn't need to be dissected to that extent (the "discomfort" & "diagnosing your game" parts for instance) should have been kept simple and to the point.
 

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It's outstanding. I haven't heard any of his CD's or whatever, but "Secrets of the Alpha Male" is an excellent e-book.
 

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I wasn't impressed by his newsletter, but check out his ebook if you want
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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