"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Career/Part Time Work or 4 Year College?

Scorched

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I am at a cross roads...

Which would you guys do or rather have done at age 22 1/2...

Go to a 4 year college and be a freshman?
(Will have most of it paid for)

Or work Full time and go to college part time?
(I am only 4 grand in debt)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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School full time.
I was a freshman at 22 when I started after the Marine Corps.

Now, 5 months before my 24th birthday, I'm halfway done.

If you do it part time then chances are you won't finish. You really have to put full effort into it and worry about all else second.

Besides it's not alot of fun working and going to school. Get it over sooner rather than later.

I pretty much do work full time (2 part time jobs), average 18 credits/semester, and still maintain a 3.7 GPA in an engineering major. So don't think it can't be done. You just can't be a p^ssy about.
 

lebRambo

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dude, go full time college. university is such an awesome experience, and if you have the opportunity then definitely do it. Hehe, this is my last year of a 4 year comp sci degree. I graduate before i turn 21. I feel so f*cking young :)
 

rrrrr

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Get your college degree ASAP. You want to start that career and making cash, and promotions ASAP. Don't forget to get the federal grants, they will help you out a lot.
 
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