Disciple_5573
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Did you ever notice that you get your heart broken or feel disappointment and stress only over things that you place high value on? Which car would you feel more worried about crashing a BMW or a hoopty? It's the same with women. Recently, I've been looking back at many of my past experiences with chicks and I've drawn certain conclusions.
1.) Chicks always wanted me more when I wanted or cared about them less.
2.) Things with chicks just seemed to happen more naturally when I didn't care much about the outcome.
3.) The less value I placed on a particular chick, the less stressed out I was about her.
4.) The less I cared about losing a chick or about not getting her, the more relaxed, confident, ****y, charming, and natural I acted (natural in the sense of not trying to please her but treating her as just another thing).
Here's an example. Several years ago, I briefly dated this chick that had a pretty face but her attitude wasn't up to what I really wanted. So I began to want her less and not care so much about saying the right thing to her or trying to please her,
or care what she thought. In other words, I began to value her less. I noticed that as I cared less, I felt bolder, more free, more confident, and less tolerant of any of her bullsh*t. I didn't care if she called or not, how often I saw her or not, or even if she walked out the door and never came back. Let me tell you something. When you reach the point where you can have a pretty chick with you and she could tell you she was leaving and never coming back and you genuinely don't give a rat's a$$ and even offer to hold the door open for her, you'll possess true power. Treat the ones you are very interested in the way you treat the ones you have only some interest in. Don't treat that pretty girl like a 10, treat her the way you'd treat a girl with an average body, that looks okay but is nothing to brag about and although she looks good enough to hit, if you didn't bang her, you wouldn't lose any sleep over it. If you can do that, you'll have more peace of mind not to mention your interactions with chicks will go a lot better.
1.) Chicks always wanted me more when I wanted or cared about them less.
2.) Things with chicks just seemed to happen more naturally when I didn't care much about the outcome.
3.) The less value I placed on a particular chick, the less stressed out I was about her.
4.) The less I cared about losing a chick or about not getting her, the more relaxed, confident, ****y, charming, and natural I acted (natural in the sense of not trying to please her but treating her as just another thing).
Here's an example. Several years ago, I briefly dated this chick that had a pretty face but her attitude wasn't up to what I really wanted. So I began to want her less and not care so much about saying the right thing to her or trying to please her,
or care what she thought. In other words, I began to value her less. I noticed that as I cared less, I felt bolder, more free, more confident, and less tolerant of any of her bullsh*t. I didn't care if she called or not, how often I saw her or not, or even if she walked out the door and never came back. Let me tell you something. When you reach the point where you can have a pretty chick with you and she could tell you she was leaving and never coming back and you genuinely don't give a rat's a$$ and even offer to hold the door open for her, you'll possess true power. Treat the ones you are very interested in the way you treat the ones you have only some interest in. Don't treat that pretty girl like a 10, treat her the way you'd treat a girl with an average body, that looks okay but is nothing to brag about and although she looks good enough to hit, if you didn't bang her, you wouldn't lose any sleep over it. If you can do that, you'll have more peace of mind not to mention your interactions with chicks will go a lot better.