MikeYikes122
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I've mulled over the last couple of days whether or not I want to post this on here because I don't want to be 'that guy'. But since I can't sleep I have plenty of opportunity to ask for advice.
So I've moved back to the town I went to college in for a job/post-grad work and have been here for about a month and a half. I am only a year removed from my graduation, so I have been seeing a ton of old friends/familiar faces. Most importantly among them was a girl who I used to talk up in one of my classes when I was an undergrad. The term HB 10 gets tossed around here a lot, but if there was ever a girl who was deserving of the title it's her. She is ridiculously hot and is pretty easy to talk to.
Anyway, about a year and a half ago I had the type of rapport with her where I'd call her/text with her, but I was never able to get her to hook up with me, partly because she always had an exclusive boyfriend (more on that later). Eventually, I deleted her phone number and kept the small talk with her when I ran into her to a minimum because I felt like I shouldn't have been wasting my time with her any longer.
Just this past weekend I ran into her out at the bars, and she was hammered. I played it cool when I first saw her, walked by her field of vision, didn't acknowledge her or look at her and continued with my friends. Out of the corner of my eye, I caught her look at me and then look down like she didn't want to get caught staring. My friends and I started talking up some girls in the adjacent corner of the bar. Eventually, me and my friends finished with the girls in the corner and walked back by the HB10 again. I kept my attention focused ahead of me and never even glanced at her. She ran out in front of me, pressed herself on me and asked me to take a picture of her and her friends. I obliged and pretended like she was just some random chick who needed a picture taken. She then grabbed my chest, called me by full name and said something else to me that isn't important. I pretended further like I didn't remember completely who she was and I called her Sarah (I knew full-well her name was not Sarah, I just say that to all really hot girls I encounter in this fashion.)
Anyway, she responded by kissing me on the lips/cheek, reminding me of her full name and putting her number in my cell phone. I played it off like I was a little weirded out by her forwardness, but that I kind of remembered who she was. Now, she has given me her number in similar fashion before - the first time when I was an undergrad she put her phone number in my phone and I was hammered too, causing us to make out instead of her just kissing me. But I didn't quite have as much experience then and I think I made some mistakes, especially considering she had a boyfriend.
My question is, what do I do now? I'm leaning towards just sending her a text on Saturday that says "I'm going to be out at X bar at 10:30 pm". Something along those lines. I don't want this to get where it was when we were undergrads where there was a lot of talk but little action.
I also wanted to bring something else up. Where we went to school, the members of our basketball team are like celebrities. She used to date the star of the team, and I actually kind of knew the kid and he was dating her semi-exclusively for over a year, like he only had one girl on the side the entire time really. That is actually pretty astounding considering the way we treat basketball players on our campus. Anyway, he was drafted into the NBA last summer and I guess it only took him two weeks of being at summer camp in his new city for him to completely forget about her and just starting ignoring her.
Now, I know I should never qualify myself, and I know I offer a lot more than that jerk off does. But it's hard not to think in the back of my mind about her having dated essentially the most desirable guy on campus. I bring a lot to the table, but I don't bring fortune and fame. Any ideas what I should do if his name comes up when I'm out with her? I'm thinking about saying something like "Oh yeah, are they at least letting him look at the floor now?" because he rides the bench for the team he plays on and has really only ever played like 20 minutes in his entire NBA career.
Any advice is appreciated.
So I've moved back to the town I went to college in for a job/post-grad work and have been here for about a month and a half. I am only a year removed from my graduation, so I have been seeing a ton of old friends/familiar faces. Most importantly among them was a girl who I used to talk up in one of my classes when I was an undergrad. The term HB 10 gets tossed around here a lot, but if there was ever a girl who was deserving of the title it's her. She is ridiculously hot and is pretty easy to talk to.
Anyway, about a year and a half ago I had the type of rapport with her where I'd call her/text with her, but I was never able to get her to hook up with me, partly because she always had an exclusive boyfriend (more on that later). Eventually, I deleted her phone number and kept the small talk with her when I ran into her to a minimum because I felt like I shouldn't have been wasting my time with her any longer.
Just this past weekend I ran into her out at the bars, and she was hammered. I played it cool when I first saw her, walked by her field of vision, didn't acknowledge her or look at her and continued with my friends. Out of the corner of my eye, I caught her look at me and then look down like she didn't want to get caught staring. My friends and I started talking up some girls in the adjacent corner of the bar. Eventually, me and my friends finished with the girls in the corner and walked back by the HB10 again. I kept my attention focused ahead of me and never even glanced at her. She ran out in front of me, pressed herself on me and asked me to take a picture of her and her friends. I obliged and pretended like she was just some random chick who needed a picture taken. She then grabbed my chest, called me by full name and said something else to me that isn't important. I pretended further like I didn't remember completely who she was and I called her Sarah (I knew full-well her name was not Sarah, I just say that to all really hot girls I encounter in this fashion.)
Anyway, she responded by kissing me on the lips/cheek, reminding me of her full name and putting her number in my cell phone. I played it off like I was a little weirded out by her forwardness, but that I kind of remembered who she was. Now, she has given me her number in similar fashion before - the first time when I was an undergrad she put her phone number in my phone and I was hammered too, causing us to make out instead of her just kissing me. But I didn't quite have as much experience then and I think I made some mistakes, especially considering she had a boyfriend.
My question is, what do I do now? I'm leaning towards just sending her a text on Saturday that says "I'm going to be out at X bar at 10:30 pm". Something along those lines. I don't want this to get where it was when we were undergrads where there was a lot of talk but little action.
I also wanted to bring something else up. Where we went to school, the members of our basketball team are like celebrities. She used to date the star of the team, and I actually kind of knew the kid and he was dating her semi-exclusively for over a year, like he only had one girl on the side the entire time really. That is actually pretty astounding considering the way we treat basketball players on our campus. Anyway, he was drafted into the NBA last summer and I guess it only took him two weeks of being at summer camp in his new city for him to completely forget about her and just starting ignoring her.
Now, I know I should never qualify myself, and I know I offer a lot more than that jerk off does. But it's hard not to think in the back of my mind about her having dated essentially the most desirable guy on campus. I bring a lot to the table, but I don't bring fortune and fame. Any ideas what I should do if his name comes up when I'm out with her? I'm thinking about saying something like "Oh yeah, are they at least letting him look at the floor now?" because he rides the bench for the team he plays on and has really only ever played like 20 minutes in his entire NBA career.
Any advice is appreciated.