"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cant see my chick

123andrewdude

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Alright heres my problem, its my 2nd year of high school and ive been dating this chick since the 1st week of high school. My problem, well her grandma (she only lives with her grandma and brother) is a total bit** i mean she doesnt let us see eacother at ALL the only time we really see eachother is at school dances and in school and thats not really the right place, if you know what i mean ;) anyways like i really like her, and weve been going out for a looong time, but its just that all my friends are over here dating a **** load of hot chicks and getting laid while im over here with 1 chick and not even doing anything. The only reason why her grandma doesnt let us see eachother was because her mom was a total *****, not trying to be rude but thats exactly what her grandma said, anyways she doesnt trust us at all and i have no idea what to do now. I feel like im tied down and im tied down with someone i cant do anything with.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LearningSlowly

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Answer here is obvious. Either break up with her or find new ways to see her. No other options.
 
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