Canceled second date, advice?

[Glassguy]

Thanks guys...phenomenal advice as usual. I can already feel the improvements.

So we pinned a firm date for next Wednesday. I sent her the time and place, and she agreed to the meeting.

However, something that bothered me is she also said "I'm feeling sick and I'm ok to work today...but I just can't wait to go home and sleep"

This makes me feel like she's choosing sleep over me (if she's ok to work), because if she were really interested, she would want to go on the date tonight, no?

Should I next her? Or go on the date next Wednesday and see how it goes?

Stop over analyzing it.

I like to lock in dates within 2-4 days of when I make the offer. A week is a long time and lots of things can happen between now and then.

I never offer to meet up the same day (unless the chick makes it abundantly clear that she wants smashed) and never over 5 days. It just doesnt work out and the flake % goes through the roof.

Lastly, if she is sick I am sure she does want to go home and to bed. Dont try to be so aloof that you are cold hearted.

"Awe.....hope you feel better. Good thing you have a full week to get back on track before we meet up "

 

[A 3% Percent Man]

Thanks guys...phenomenal advice as usual. I can already feel the improvements.

So we pinned a firm date for next Wednesday. I sent her the time and place, and she agreed to the meeting.

However, something that bothered me is she also said "I'm feeling sick and I'm ok to work today...but I just can't wait to go home and sleep"

This makes me feel like she's choosing sleep over me (if she's ok to work), because if she were really interested, she would want to go on the date tonight, no?

Should I next her? Or go on the date next Wednesday and see how it goes?

You are still acting like she is the only lady in the world. When was the last time James Bond was stuck on one chick. Like never

Your duty this week is go and talk to as many ladies as you can to give yourself options. Stop over thinking there is a high possible she could flake out on the date.