"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Canada is pretty damn corrupted

Desdinova

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I don't think anybody could make this 5hit up...

This person is running for mayor in Toronto. She's never invited to debates, and got escorted out when she tried to attend anyway. She paid the media to run her ads, but they refused and returned her money. She tried to sue the media for breaking the law, but the judge threw the case out of court.

I'm absolutely blown away that this 5hit happens.

 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That's pretty ridiculous. Third party candidates have been treated in a similar manner when trying to debate in the USA; however, their advertisements weren't denied by the media. Judge just threw her case away, that's pretty messed up.
 

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Our societies are a veneer of "democracy".
 

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Faith Goldy, (the lady you are referring to) got something like 3.4% of the vote. Sharon, who was running on a more social justice platform and reaching out to poor/disenfranchised/Blacks got 2% of the vote. Faith Goldly is like the Donald Trump of Toronto. You already got a right-wing conservative premier (Doug Ford), and he posted a photo shot with Faith Goldly along with the police. It would be nightmarish if someone like her won as a mayor with 51% of the city is non-white. Yet, John Tory, the current mayor who won twice so far had a 3% vote when he first ran, which means this lady is still a viable threat.

However, unlike the United States, we don't have to register to vote. You just show up with your driver's license or whatever ID you have and vote.
You don't have people just being purged from voter rolls like you do in the States. Fortunately, despite whatever I wrote, all the above candidates are still fringe candidates and didn't register a blip in the overall election with such a low vote. It does symbolically show that there are some racist elements within the city that are alive and well, like a cancer, despite this city being over 51% non-white and being one of the most diverse and multi-cultural places to be in North America. She even getting traction of 3.4% doesn't look great for the health of the city.
 

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Third parties candidates are vanity candidates. If you can't get >=50.01% support, you don't deserve to govern. (see: definition of runoff election)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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