"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can this offset being bald?

narcissist

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Can being jacked and having tattoos offset being bald when your older? Just curious. My dad is bald so that might mean ill turn out being bald when im 40 or whatever.

Anyways what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Baldness comes from your mom's heredity, look for relatives on her side.
 

VladPatton

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BeDJ said:
Baldness comes from your mom's heredity, look for relatives on her side.

Yep...and second...look at The Rock...I doubt anyone will ever call him a puṣṣy lol
 

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Baldness comes from your mom's heredity, look for relatives on her side.

That's bull. Im 42 and going bald. My father's bald. His father was bald. No one on my mom's side is bald.

I would say that hair is a non-issue. If it bothers you, then it'll bother the ladies. If you have an attitude that says this is who I am, FU if you don't like it----women will respect you. And as you know, respect is key.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Baldness time has passed....hardly anyone gives a **** unless you do. I know women who crave bald men
 

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i remember when the movie American History X came out, lots of women were talking about how attractive they found Ed Norton, he wasnt bald but he had a shaved head with a goatee and lots of muscles, i think there are lots of women out there who like that look.
 

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It's in style if you have the body for it. my friends who are straight jacked shave their heads even tho their not balding. They get a lot of chicks.

if your over 35 and jacked I don't think it matters what you look like. most guys after 35 let themselves go.
 

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Don't ever think of baldness as a shortcoming that has to be "offset" because it's not. Yes, there are women who don't like bald guys, but there's an equal or greater number who lust after them. Notice I said "bald" and not "balding." There are exceptions, of course, but balding is generally not a good look. You need to know when it's time to buzz it short and when it's time to shave it.

I don't claim to be a DJ or an expert on what women find attractive, but I can speak with confidence on this particular topic because I've lived it! I've had MUCH more action as a bald guy than I ever did when I had a gorgeous full head of hair.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jay07 said:
It's in style if you have the body for it. my friends who are straight jacked shave their heads even tho their not balding. They get a lot of chicks.

if your over 35 and jacked I don't think it matters what you look like. most guys after 35 let themselves go.
This. I think balding will hurt you when you're younger, but once you're over 35, it doesn't matter....especially to women in that age range. Just cut it short. Nothing worse than trying to comb over or hiding it.
 
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