can this be salvaged?

[Juan Silver]

so, here's the deal. im 21 and at college. im pretty good with girls and get a lot of hook-ups. but right now im trying to actually get a girl friend instead of just random hook-ups.

Anyway, theres this girl, i know she was interested in me because she used to come up2 me all the time when she saw meat parties and stuff but we never really hung out or anything cos i was in my pimpin stage - not really into the gf idea.

but i thought now id try it, so i sent her an email saying we should hang out and she said she def would. next day i see her at a party, i was doing good -plenty of laughing and touching. i think i might have spent too loong hitting on here tho cos she left b4 me!

anyway, i text her the next day making a joke about last night and that we should hang out today n play some pool. she replies to my joke in a good flirty way but says "pool isnt exactly her best game ". anyway i just replied saying some joke about ill just have to dominate her sometime n we should party later.

so i see her at some party later and we flirt a lil again but i notice not quite the same interest, i mean i could still see interest but not quite the same n she was flirting wit other guys. anyway when i leave she calls me over and hugs me and i leave. now i probs made another big mistake! i text her like an hour later - like 3am saying we should def hang out 2moro - yea i kno horrible desperation but i was toasted .

anyway she neva replied or anything, so im wondering if ive already screwed it up or if i can still pimp my way through? how is best to approach it, should i wait to see if i hear from her or maybe wait a few more days and then attempt something?

let me know what you fellow Don Juan's have got?

 

[Tomatoes]

For one....Your over analyzing. Calm down abit. Yes you are also being too needy. I think however you may have caught it early enough. Stop texting her atm. Wait for her to contact you....or until you see her at a party again...

Also.....Game other girls when shes about too...dont look like shes your one and only. If you go after other girls too....you:

A. Increase your chances with getting a gf
B. Her intrest level will grow if other girls fancy you
C. It may help you reclaim control of the situation.

 

[00Kevin]

1. you ask for her number
2. she gives it to you
3. you call her a few days later
4. you take her out and put the moves on her

End of thought process!

you think way to much. she is just a girl with a sinky pu-ssy. she is 1 out of 3+ billion women in the world.

You ask for her number and if she says no you cry like a baby or you suck it up like a man and ask the next girl.

When you ask for her number think that you are being generous. Feel good about it.

 

[Tomatoes]

1. you ask for her number
2. she gives it to you
3. you call her a few days later
4. you take her out and put the moves on her

End of thought process!

you think way to much. she is just a girl with a sinky pu-ssy. she is 1 out of 3+ billion women in the world.

You ask for her number and if she says no you cry like a baby or you suck it up like a man and ask the next girl.

When you ask for her number think that you are being generous. Feel good about it.

Did you even read his post? He has her number. Hes already got himself in a predicament. So your generalised post is no help. Plus I know i personally dont want to shag most the 3 billion women in the world as most are ugly. I will setle for the HB9-10s thank you very much.

This guy clearly has a small case of oneitis. So best helping him with that. If he doesnt get anywhere then he can next her.

Now stop trash posting and post something useful if posting at all

 

[Juan Silver]

yea i get your point about over analysing. i definately need to ease of a lil, jus beleive tho when i tell you this girl is seriously sick!! anyways, anymore advise from you guys?

 

[jigga23]

im in the same situation almost as you.I just got out of an ltr ran into this girl i kind of met a couple of times. I told myself after i broke up i will just pimp girls and fvck them only. but shes a cool girl and everything so i was like yea i can see a ltr with her maybe. we hung out a couple of times. went to her house after the bars. i was high and drunk so my duty could not be done so i didnt even try and i didnt want to come off all needy. I havent really talked to her about it since but i think it smashed her self esteem cause she was use to never getting turned down. i wish i wouldve told her why i didnt. now i was acting kind of needy. calling her up during the week then saying ok lets hang out. now shes flaking. this last weekened despite me being gone, i texted her and freakin asked her to go to a thing with me in the middle of may at like 1 am. no reply from her for the first time. so now im not going to call her atleast for a couple of weeks and see if she will call and this will also show that im not needy and i need to stop overanalyzing cause i am. any other plans on how to pimp her? need some good advice also