"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Can I become a D.J? Im very new to this concept.

cyp6

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Hey guys..

First of all im really glad to have found a site like this.. I have always had trouble with girls, I mean im a prity good looking guy, but I have never really had any real sucess with women....

I will be a sen. at my high school next year.. i am a popular dude and all but i have never really had a girlfriend in my high school... i have always been the "friend", all my friends have had more sucess with the girls... so i guess i have just always been a AFC..

now Im wondering.... can anyone be a DJ? I have been reading the articals and started to read the DJ boot camp... if i compleat it i should be more attractive to women right? well anyways.... if you used to be a AFC like me and now your on your way to become a DJ because the the things you learned on this site.. please post your story on this page.. like how you were before.. what the transition period was like.. and how you are now.. some examples would be most appreciated..

thanks cyp6
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You should know that anyone has the potential for success with women, and that doesn't require you be a DJ. lol.

If you are a DJ, you will be successful with women, and if you are successful with women, you aren't nessaserily a DJ.

I don't really post Field reports, or anything of that nature, because it's my own buisness, but all I have to say is it will not happen instantly.

It will take worth, but it is worth it, and since you are allready popular, then it should be easier for you.

My MSN is [email protected]
My AIM and Yahoo are aisaac2008

I can share some experiences I have had, if you want to listen.
 

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Hey, I'm new(ish) too.

I'm no DJ, I was a big AFC for 3 years before this summer.

After reading up on a bunch of articles and finding out that 'Hey! I'm not really that bad looking, I got smarts and I can flirt. I'm happy with my picture nowadays and I got confidence to try to turn a close friendship into something more.'

It won't happen overnight, but you gotta get some self-realization in there, so that way you can have the correct mindset to say, 'I can do this, fail or not, she's got something that I want, and that's the reason I'm givin her the EC and the hi from my smooth walkup.'

(not smooth, but it sounded cool >.<)
 

cyp6

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:D :) :p :cool: ohg.. this stuff works like the the shyt... its been 3 days and my game is so much better... girls are actually asking for my number. i havent dated any one yet but im sure i will has a lot of sucess using the bibble..

I just want the THANK ALL THE DJ on this site for "putting out" (lol) all this wonderful infomation....

-cyp6
 

08aisaac

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Yeah this is the shyt. I wouldn't stick around otherwise. lol.

Just don't get lost in caves, and don't shoot anyone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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man aisaac i wish youd told me that earlier - im on the run now :(
 
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