"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Can feminists be proper arbiters of what men consider sexy?

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I was reading this article about a "feminist" run strip club that is going out of business, and it got me thinking.

http://www.theatlantic.com/national...the-lusty-lady-a-unionized-strip-club/279236/

Looking at the pic, I can't see how customers would want to pay to look at chunky chicks like that - and when I read about how this place was run, I can't see how even if there were more attractive strippers, there would be a whole lot of interested customers.

This all led to my conclusion that feminists - since they consider pleasing a man to be "sexist" to begin with - cannot possibly be good arbiters about what men find sexy. And it fits with other aspects of the culture - e.g., feminists saying that a well educated but dumpy women should be considered more attractive for a well educated man, etc. I am well educated, but I would still prefer to have sex with a hot bimbo than a chunky intellectual!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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