"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can a woman from a rich family adjust to a lower std of living and still be happy?

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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
Until you're rich, you'll never be "good" enough for her. And despite your recent fireworks, this subject has not even begun to rear its ugly head. If you were to ask her to marry you, then you get to hear from mom and dad how you aren't good enough for little Buffy. I dated a rich girl too, it sucks because they can be highly attractive women but there is always an 800 pound gorilla in the room wearing a t-shirt with a dollar sign on it.

I'd keep banging this one but look around for another and then dump her ass.
ROTFLMAO!!!

In most cases, a poor man dating a rich girl is a Jenga tower waiting to fall. All it takes is one cute guy with a Benz, a rich guy with a 3-story mansion + a Bentley, an ex-drug dealer who has 3 BMW's, a retired man driving a Lambo, an NFL/ NBA superstar, etc. In other words, you've got major competition.

If you want to consistently (key word) date high class women, you'll need to show some class yourself.

You could look like you got lit on fire and you put it out with a track cleat. But if you're worth 8 figures, 99.9% of the girls you meet will thing you're sexy as hell!

Also, @ 02 hero, I LOL'd at that video, but when you think of how true that sh*t is, you just reminisce.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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fuzzx said:
Bottom line: Give money no power in the relationship and she'll never be able to use it against you. The same goes for sex.
Awesome. Pook-worthy, to say the least.
 

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She said you were below her 'standard'. I wouldn't even talk to her seriously ever again. End of story.
 

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fuzzx said:
Bottom line: Give money no power in the relationship and she'll never be able to use it against you. The same goes for sex.
Absolutely golden.
 

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In response to the OP:

More than likely not, though there are exceptions as demonstrated by other posters.

Remember guys, not only is the woman biologically hardwired to seek out the best provider for her offspring, she is also socially conditioned by parents/society as well to snag the top guy.

I don't really see a problem with this...why are guys so offended that the majority of very attractive women are drawn to money? Aren't we just as shallow for wanting attractive girls?

Where would the incentive to be wealthy be if women were not somehow drawn to wealth. I mean we keep b*tching about women being golddiggers and such but honestly i think that particular dynamic is the main driver of human advancement. If it werent for them demanding and wanting wealthy men then no man would give a damn inventing the next Google, or innovating for future energy sources, or being the best quarterback in the NFL.

I am not discounting the importance of having a strong frame and taking the lead in the relationship, in fact I believe the wealthier you are a stronger frame is required b/c you will constantly be tested by women who will want gifts and expensive dinners in return for their sex. How you respond and handle yourself in these situations will make the difference between becoming the next Hugh Hefner or Paul McCartney.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the answer is no.. but that does not matter... most women keep multiple men for multiple reasons at any given time.. she is closest to happiness when all her slots are filled .. one man cannot fill all her slots ever.. and each man who has a slot only has a limited time thee since most women have a never ending line of new men begging for a slot on her list...lol
 
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