"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Calling Rollo:

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mrRuckus

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I don't think I have a low sex drive, but I still think some of the posts there are blowing it way out of proportion, at least for the majority of men. I mean, i have good testosterone levels (I got checked for weightlifting purposes a while back), and sure I get horny, but it's no near constant omg I gotta have it sort of thing.

It's more like if I'm exposed to the sex stuff or have a girlfriend in the vicinity to entice me then I get a bit horny, but if there's nothing to feast my eyes on then it's no big deal, maybe rub one out here and there and go about my business without too much trouble.

Posts like this from some stupid, annoying woman who won't go away from that site:

sh1tbagNeecy said:
I also believe women can go for very long periods of time without sex and still keep her sanity. A man? I am convinced if men don’t get laid regularly on average we’d be living in a war zone full of serial killers. LOL
I know the end is an exaggeration, but still... I've gone "long" periods without sex and it's really not that much of an issue. I notice that I start having more sex dreams, but I don't go insane and feel like I have to constantly go looking for it everywhere and I sure as hell don't go "insane" even in the slightest. Usually it's mostly self imposed anyway due to laziness in meeting new chicks. If the urge were THAT damn strong, then I'd be off my ass after women.

I think I often prefer just to satisfy the urge my damn self and not worry about someone else and be able to get on with doing what I want to do. I'm 31 now and I really don't see any difference from when I was 25 as I think age is related. However, I do lift weights and eat a very good diet so I doubt my drop off would ever be as severe as some doughy fatty with blood pumping through his estrogen system.




Is not having sex for a while THAT irritating to you guys? Seriously, without the exaggeration inherent in this sort of topic.
 

Boilermaker

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I am fine when I am not having constant sex but when I have access to it via a high-drive young babe, I don't stop. It becomes more frequent than masturbation even.
 

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mrRuckus said:
However, I do lift weights and eat a very good diet so I doubt my drop off would ever be as severe as some doughy fatty with blood pumping through his estrogen system.

Is not having sex for a while THAT irritating to you guys? Seriously, without the exaggeration inherent in this sort of topic.
LOL at the 'estrogen system'.

I think it's exaggerated as well. I'm in an LTR, but I've always found that the more I get it the more I want it. 5 days was nothing when I was single but in a relationship it does seem like a while....it's all relative I guess.

I think a lot of guys make it seem like they're going to DIE if they dont get laid. I've definitely had moments like that, but that was when I was dwelling on it or making it worse by watching p0rn all the time.

As far as women and their sex drives, they definitely vary but on the whole they can go without more easily than men.
 
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