"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Calling an ex-girlfriend 145 times in 11 hours lands a man in jail

amoka

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2006
Messages
1,931
Reaction score
62
A Florida man accused of stalking his ex-girlfriend called the woman 145 times in the span of 11 hours Friday and even caused the school where the woman works to be put on lockdown because he threatened to blow up the building, police said.

Kirk Trim, 36, who lives in Pompano Beach, faces charges of aggravated stalking, The Palm Beach Post reported. He allegedly called the woman's Boca Raton workplace, the Florence Fuller Child Development Centers, and when a police officer answered the phone, Trim reportedly said, "I am not scared of the cops. I will give you my address."

"You will have to call the SWAT team on me," he allegedly said in one of the messages.

Trim was released on bail Saturday from Palm Beach County Jail.
Here
 
Last edited:

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
17,578
Reaction score
6,360
Age
50
Location
midwestern cow field 40
I know a guy who did 60 days in county over a single text message. Baby momma got an order of protection with no contact order. Then she posted to facebook that their kid was sick and she was taking him to the hospital. He texted her about the kid, she showed the phone to the cops, and they took him straight to jail. The kid wasn't actually sick; she made up the story to trick him into contacting her.
 

Scaramouche

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 27, 2008
Messages
4,440
Reaction score
1,560
Age
82
Location
Australia
Dear Amoka,
Well being the Devils advocate,he did threaten to blow the School up...Probably deserves what he got...However Bibles story is far more unjust...Had the tables been turned and he had custody her ringing about a sick Kid would see her lauded as a Caring Mother...Frankly I believe a good Lawyer would get her pinned on an entrapment charge and him exonerated!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

dasein

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
207
Tictac said:
I don't care who you are. You belong in a lock-up if you do sh*t like this.
Agree, but rant on, and not against you or your post...

Fine, then do it to women too, and there'd be another 2-3 million women in jail right now. I agree the behavior is out of line, but jailable? We have become way too police state and the bias in gender treatment is outrageous. This utilization of the police force as dating and life counselors for women who aren't in any real danger needs to end yesterday. Far more damage is done by cops getting their pig jollies intimidating normal, nonviolent, but distraught men in this way into a reaction so they can have some of their sadistic special pig brand of fun.

Wonder how much print was given to investigating what the innocent little princess might have done to deserve the harrassment? Sure, it's always just some "dude who couldn't take no for an answer." Sure it is. Rant off.
 

ive

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 17, 2013
Messages
43
Reaction score
1
I dont think the guy belongs in jail, because I think he suffered some sort of a nervous breakdown which can happen when a person experiences break up. IT is a temporary blackout due to extreme emotions, so the guy needed psychiatric help. This is clearly done out of mental anguish, not with malicious intent.
 

Tictac

Banned
Joined
Jul 28, 2009
Messages
3,668
Reaction score
1,244
Location
North America, probably an airport
He drugged a woman so he could bang her.

Women do it too dasein? When? Where? How?

Sure, focus on the sex, not the assault and battery with intent that preceded it.

If you are okay with people drugging you without your consent, you have bigger problems.
 

dasein

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2013
Messages
1,109
Reaction score
207
Tictac said:
He drugged a woman so he could bang her.
I didn't see anything relating to that in either the charges against him or the linked article. This thread was about stalking behavior, which women sure as hell do plenty of, has happened to me many times. Thing is, it's cutesy and socially acceptable when a girl does it, even if she tears stuff up. When a man does it, even some average lovesick joe, it's instantly some kind of hideous felony. This is a double standard that needs to stop yesterday.
 
Top