"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks for sharing that. It is interesting to see the cultural differences. I have a few Indian friends so am aware of it.

Here in the US though, it is very common especially among followers of sites like these to never tell a girl to call us. Women are very unlikely to pick up the phone to make the first call.

So if you could get her phone number and display the same wit and charm you show in your message I'm sure you would do fine.

Or is there some cultural difference that makes it unlikely for a woman to give you her phone number?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When she saw your pictures she wasn't that interested.

It was dumb to tell her to call you - you call her. Its your job to make the effort not her. Ask her for her phone number - if she doesn't give it to you then you know how she feels.
 
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