"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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In2theGame

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Okay, well... i have a hot date this coming friday night and its time to redeem myself. What do i mean? well... I posted this in the "The most obvious come on that was missed" Archive forum.........

"one night i was talking to the OTHER girl (Her friend) Online and i was insisting we hang out, i told her to take a cab to my area and we will hang out a bit. She agrees to take a cab to hang out with me at 1am in the morning. She shows up and we say hey and stuff then we start walkin and talkin and we end up seeing a couple fuking by a bench... she goes "wow he has her legs up like that" and i say "yeah thats crazy" she then SAYS to me.... Get ready for this one......... She says "you like my panties?" and i say "I cant see, pull your shorts down a little lower", she does and she goes "You like them? they smell and taste like watermellon" and I SAY!!!!!........"Really? hmmm.. that cool" By the end of the night, she had her arms folded and let out a very distant vibe. Ugh i wanna throw up now.... !!!!"

This is the same girl i AFCed out but now ....... after a about 2 years... we end up with date plans.. 2nd chance for me. Im pretty sure she has that memory still of how AFC i was not making any advances on her the last time we hung out alone but This time... that Sh!t aint happening.

Question i have, if she knows how i AFCed last time, why is she agreeing to hook up once more? is she expecting something now u think? In2thegame is about to step into the field again fri night. Advice? tips?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lord Shinra

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Usually I hate going back in time. But if shes hot and you got nothing better to do, I dont see the problem.

One tip I will give you is be very careful. You dont know if she has another agenda or if she genuinely wants you again, so until you find out dont show your cards too much.
 

pg_lost

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Just for the record. I was in a similar situation as you (her coming over at 1am ect.). If you can do it all over again, can you tell me, realistically, who and what you would have done after she told you about her panties? Would you have ****ed her right there, bring her back to your house while making dirty talk...What, Please let a brother know. Cause sometimes, I am in a situation where I know the girl wants to fvck, but if we are under a "platonic" label, I don't know how to escalate, and it is a real problem for me!
 
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