"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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avrilishot

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a buddy of mine came up with a pretty good cold approach about a week ago. he was telling me that the tip im about to tell you really helped his confidece. What he told me was got to any store and ask a sales ladie for help. And after you are done talking to the chick say will thanks alot and it was nice talking to you. and say will I have something for you. you would then write your phone number on a piece of paper and give it to her. then you would say you can call me later if you want. my friend was saying most likely she wont call but he says its also a 50/50 chance. even if she doesnt call your boosting up your confiddence. either way you should fell way more confident them you did.

so he told me this and so I decided to go to the mall and I had to look for a book so I went to the book store in the mall. theres a hb8 working there putting books on the shelf. so I decide to go up t her and ask her where the Stephen king books are so she takes me to the stephen king books. Afterwards I say thank you and say here I have something for you. she says really what is it. I have a piece of paper in my pocket and I write down my cell number and I hand it to her and say if you want give me a call sometime. she smiles and says alright. afterwards I felt so damn good. Either way I dont expect her to call me but I have to remember in my head that theres nothing to lose. she might call me she might not oh well. im really just looking to boost my confidence.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wowiehowie

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Originally posted by avrilishot
I dont expect her to call me but I have to remember in my head that theres nothing to lose. she might call me she might not oh well. im really just looking to boost my confidence.

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Absolutely. You took the chance. As a result there are obviously 2 possible outcomes. Otherwise, there would have only been 1 outcome.
Good job.
 

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I woudlnt really say its successful in getting a date but if it boosts confidence then go for it.

Most likely on # closes, it'd be best to get a girl's #.

The call me thing actually works quite well at the end of dates, (thats if your date already has your #!) if theyre IL is high enough they will call.
 

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Good exercise I'll try it.

Though I'm thinking that if you could bust her balls a little during the process of having her find your book for you you'd be on a winner. Besides which it's a confidence points game.

On a day when your confidence is high you are INVINCIBLE and everyone can see it. Hell even the guys all bow to your alphaness.

Store girls are fantastic to flirt with because they're a captive audience and they're payed to talk to you.

If I were you I'd bust on her that she wants your number or something....If she plays along then she'll probibly be 10x more likely to call.

Still I'm all for confidence games.
 

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I think the best way to do this is after she helps you..
Tell her qualifying questions like

You know what.... I really like how you carry yourself, and I can tell you pay attention to details.. ( Kino)

Ask her if she likes suprises... Ask her to close her eyes..
Then get close to her run your hands through her hair then wipe away a little dirt from her lower lip :crackup: :D ;) :p

then do your I don't do this often line and write your number...

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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and if you're telling her she knows how to carry herself ask her if she thinks she could take that girl over there in a fight ;-)

I also like to ask her if she's into rugby then tell her - oh well, you look like you'd be good at that kind of thing.

She'll take the compliment in a double kind of way.....is he saying I look manly or tough? This isn't normal :-O

It's awesome and says all the right things about you not being like all the other jackasses who chase her constantly thinking she's some kind of a goddess. If she plays along - you're in there ;-) just keep busting and flirting and the deal is sealed.
 

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diffenetly a 5 star rating.

good job
 
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