"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Call her out on this or look beta

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TBH I'd be surprised if NC is that hard..although maybe I'm being naive in thinking she won't try to get my attention at some point in the next few weeks, idk never been through this before??

I certainly won't contact her first and if she does message me idk if I'll reply. If I want any chance long term I should ignore right? Is there really a big difference between ignoring and being short?

I'd feel pretty out of line to just blank her if she did message, like she doesn't want to be with me, it's not her fault, i made some obvious errors in my game, do i even want her in the future? meh maybe.

In terms of plates I'm working on it. I don't really feel up to investing much effort into anything but improving myself for the next few months though. Maybe try find some tinder sloots but nothing remotely resembling a relationship.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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