"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Calgarians! important!

NewspaperRalph

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I'd think it'd be cool to finally create a "layer" here in
Calgary:cool:.

The reason is, that all of us here have chosento improve our
lives; some of us, are not getting the results we want! We are
getting apathetic, and lazy - asking questions on every little
things.

Being a lady's man is a life style, not a technique (in fact... it's
many techniques. ha-ha). But people here, and myself included.
The problem is that we get advice on what to do and what to say;
but saying things doesn't help.

Guys saying stuff is NOTHING, without boday language which is
why we need a "layer" to have others improve this, if you have
nothing better to do, we will teach you how to pick up a woman.
hell i'll teach you the best i can (but i ain't a pro) lol. We will
need people, of all different levels, to help each other achieve
goals. Not only that! Some guys give advice that don't work!
either i'm doing them wrong :D, or they don't work. :mad:

Imagine a real life DJ standing in front of you in a distance and
running his game. your standing there in the middle of the mall
with a note pad. He finishes and tells you excactly how to do
it, then u try the same thing - this is a free seminar.

This is already too much reading. lol. sorry. OK, i know some of
us DJ's have nothing to do on thier weekend - me included. In
fact i've been trying to get some friends to go to the mall with
me to play the pickup game, which brings me to my point:

Every good plan needs objectives, and how things will work:

1. RECRUIT. we need lots of people for this to work effectively
i don't care if your new, pro, old, young, handicaped. just pls email
me (email at the bottom). Send me a message for me to have
and idea of how many there are of you. i also want to try to
put up a website, and calander. so to organise this, i desperatly
need your skills, i don't even care if u can make a website on
freewebs - as long as it's decent.

2. PUA. even if your not a "PUA" i need you to be good enough
to share something that works for you frequenly, and teach me
so i can teach others. This is how we can get instructors.

3. FREE. advice shuld be free. in-field lessons will be free at the start

After we have gotten off the ground. We will open seminars. i will rent
out a place, and we can start. Instructors will be paid. ;). i will
mass recruit.

p.s. if i have missed anything. feel free to email me! [email protected]

p.p.s. i may have over planned. pls discuss your thoughts and ideas.
so that we can work this out. (i was thinking of ranking system: so
we know about skill level, and level of advice - although this shouldn't
matter, cuss good advice shuld be shared regardless of PUAness)

p.p.p.s. this is my first time creating something like this. I just
decided this week that i need to step my game up to get
to be a master... so if you've set up anything like this. please
send me advice on how to manage something like this to
[email protected] i love advice even if it's bad - it's still
thought. And if you want to make fun of me. just post it under
the forum. :D

Life is too short to procrastinate. go email me quick before you do something else.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NewspaperRalph

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something i didn't mention is that. i can help you right now. send me
an email, and what you want to learn by the end of next week. you
need an objective and goal (and if i can't help you. i will work with you
to complete our mission)
 

NewspaperRalph

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i hope lots. im actually recruiting some people i know already. they havn't been introduced to the community yet, but they're naturals, they already have interest in women, and learning about pickup. it's easier, and less akward if they find the community by themselves. i will recruit more soon
 

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Layer - Another surface to add to pre-existing surfaces, kind of like cake.

I think you're looking for the word 'lair'.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Layer Cake.. awesome movie, awesome soundtrack. The Sienna Miller in stockings scene is HOT.
 
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