"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Busy vs. "Busy". How do you know if she is blowing you off?

Dhoulmagus

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If I do not know the girl earlier on then I give her two chances usually. I acknowledge the supply and demand chain for men and women and do not expect a random woman to drop all her plans for a stranger. Men will because we value pu**i more than women.

If it is a gf or plate than I would threaten to end the relationship because that just means she knows she can be sloppy and will not put any effort in the relationship. My ex tried tell me she was too busy to see me during the week(like it would have been 2 weeks of not seeing her if I did not see her this week) and I brought up the," Maybe you are too busy for a relationship" statement and her ass was at my apartment in a heartbeat.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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