"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm going to teach you kids how it's done. SamePendo
not only kicks ass in the gym, but is also like a King Midas. Only that all that SamePendo
touches turns wet.

So I'm waiting for the bus. And I see this hb with her bf (never asked if he was, but it was obvious). So I ask the guy if the bus route comes through here (I knew it did). So they both answer, I turn to the chick and say "thank you" slowly.

So we're waiting, they're semi cuddling and moving, you know that weird stuff. And meanwhile I place myself infront of them, to where we're looking to see the buses, and flex my muslces. Not really, just tensed them up, the sun marked very well my muscles, shiat! I then asked them if they were from a nearby university they clearly were, again, talking to the guy, the chick replied again too, and I directed my attention to her, asking random stuff about the uni.

Sooo... the bus comes, that covers part of the route the other bus does, but she told her bf this was her bus, I go in first, pretending like I didn't notice she was boarding the same one. I pay, moving to a side, getting money in my pocket so that other boarders could come in, she comes in, and I sit a seat behind.

So, I proceed to fluff on the typical university stuff, and about her major. She asks about me, and after a bit of succesfull c/f answers, we talked about gym, she knew someone from the gym I go to. General fluff with a bit of c/f by me, nothing special, to tell you the truth.

So my stop is near and I close, I take out my cell.

"Write down your number so that we meet soon, I can give you a tour of the gym or simply hang out"

She wrote it down, I say bye, and she tells me bye bye and for me to take care and be ok. And that's it.

Nothing extra suave, just getting things done, I opened, fluffed, I know people at her uni; I made her feel some kind of connection and I was no longer a stranger.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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in a way, your saying that your LOOKS initially attracted the girl and made her wanna talk to you, correct? (muscles flexing is the example im referring to)
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
in a way, your saying that your LOOKS initially attracted the girl and made her wanna talk to you, correct? (muscles flexing is the example im referring to)
Nothing would have happened if I didn't initiate and do my thing. You'll see lots and lots of guys with MUCH BETTER BUILT bodies than mine, like x1000 better, and still I'm getting the #s of the bus.

It got me the door open? I guess so. But so does "cute eyes" or "kenny rogers thing going on" or whatever thing women make up to justify their attraction to a man.
 

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u made it sound like ur flexing ur muslces is wat really got her attention the most, thats why I brought it up
 

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the bus is an easy place to go talk to girls. They cannot just leave or anything. They will usually go and talk because they are boring, even if they don't think that you are up to their league. This is where you show them that they are not in your league.

I get numbers on the bus all the time while I am in college.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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