"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bumble yea or neh

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i just went onto bumble with a bogus account to scope it out.

I saw 4 women I know from my past there and one ex-girlfriend just from scrolling through 100 women. Man it was sad to see what were once hot confident girls 10 years ago look like desperate semi attractive slooty basic leaches from their pictures and bios. And I know Its partly the age range I was looking at but most of the women on there had a look in their eyes like they were playing musical chairs and got stuck without a chair.

I really don't want to sign up and have them see me on there but it might add to the plates.
What to you think sign up or puck OLD and stay the course been doing fine without it so far.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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