Dongfu
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This post pertains to non-superficial, higher quality women, both attractive and balanced. Not for the club ho's or target's you sarge at the mall.
Building trust in a women's mind is a definate pre-requisite to sex, obviously. As most of you know, not using pick-up lines or any other sleazy approaches is a good start to building mental trust.
But building trust in her body is an often overlooked, very powerful tool. This is step 2. First her mind, then her body, then her V.
When a woman know's that you are a guy who really knows how to handle her body, she is way more willing to open up to you sexualy, and she will also be much mor eresponsive in bed. If having really good sex with quality women is important to you, then you dont want to skip this step.
Tools for building trust in her body that will lead her to want you sexually.
1. Massage is obviously the easiest and most obvious method. Also it is a great way to get her half undressed on the bed.
Key's to a better, sexier massage that will build body trust and get her wanting you more.
a.) Toggling between deep massage, and very light skin carressing, exploring and enjoying every inch of her body, letting her feel your command over her senses. This contrast will suggest deapth to you understanding of the femle body, which enjoys variety. (especially important to the guys who think girls want to be fvcked as hard and fast as you can. This is how dogs do it and does not turm women on.)
b.) creating suspense. one way to do this is to work your way along her body, getting closer to her erotic points with each succesive pass. At this point you are playing with her and teasing her body, telling her you can do what she wants, but not yet.
c. Hair pulling and scratching. Women love this. Again, these should be done both light and a little hard. Not too hard. What I do is work my way massaging up her back, all the way to her neck, then scratch my nails up into her hair, with the front of my fingers first (basically opposite of normal scratching which would be a downward motion.) When I get my fingers deeper into her hair I grab a handfull close to her scalp and squeeze my hands together, then move her head around a little and release.
There are many other more advance techniques, but these are some basics that you can play with. Fell free to add in some other techniqes that you may have discovered.
Building trust in a women's mind is a definate pre-requisite to sex, obviously. As most of you know, not using pick-up lines or any other sleazy approaches is a good start to building mental trust.
But building trust in her body is an often overlooked, very powerful tool. This is step 2. First her mind, then her body, then her V.
When a woman know's that you are a guy who really knows how to handle her body, she is way more willing to open up to you sexualy, and she will also be much mor eresponsive in bed. If having really good sex with quality women is important to you, then you dont want to skip this step.
Tools for building trust in her body that will lead her to want you sexually.
1. Massage is obviously the easiest and most obvious method. Also it is a great way to get her half undressed on the bed.
Key's to a better, sexier massage that will build body trust and get her wanting you more.
a.) Toggling between deep massage, and very light skin carressing, exploring and enjoying every inch of her body, letting her feel your command over her senses. This contrast will suggest deapth to you understanding of the femle body, which enjoys variety. (especially important to the guys who think girls want to be fvcked as hard and fast as you can. This is how dogs do it and does not turm women on.)
b.) creating suspense. one way to do this is to work your way along her body, getting closer to her erotic points with each succesive pass. At this point you are playing with her and teasing her body, telling her you can do what she wants, but not yet.
c. Hair pulling and scratching. Women love this. Again, these should be done both light and a little hard. Not too hard. What I do is work my way massaging up her back, all the way to her neck, then scratch my nails up into her hair, with the front of my fingers first (basically opposite of normal scratching which would be a downward motion.) When I get my fingers deeper into her hair I grab a handfull close to her scalp and squeeze my hands together, then move her head around a little and release.
There are many other more advance techniques, but these are some basics that you can play with. Fell free to add in some other techniqes that you may have discovered.
damn that's not funny at all