building rapport with random gal

[sinnerman]

so i was browsing the net at the university with a hb 8.5 doing the same besides me. i didnt plan to approach her but after a while she was talking to another friend and she mentioned about how she is a lot into trance music and so on.
once she was done with her friend i talked with her.
ME : Hi. I overheard you say you're into trance music.
HER : Oh yea. I listen to it a lot. Its....(bla bla bla)

she basically kept the conversation going. I just keep agreeing with her and give my own points about how i like trance music and how it makes me feel so on.

ME : So do you listen to XXX
HER : Oh havent heard of him.
ME : Oh comon you're trance fan and not heard him..let me send you a link.
HER : Cool..Ill add you on facebook. So you're new here. It must be an adventure for you.
ME : Yea its good to be away from home.
HER : Yea i feel you.

So she adds me. We talk a lil bit more about the studies where we're from etc etc. Then her roommate or whatever comes up and so they get up and leave to catch the bus home. Before going she also introduces me to her roommate and then tells me we i should accept her request and then we can exchange the music on fb.

So now how do i play this. Im open to whatever oppurtunities come about. I just dont wish to overplay or become very "friendly" very fast at the same time she seems fun. If nothing else she cud be a good friend and can introduce to other people. So what kinda message should i send her now. Im planning to attach a few music vids but I need help with the message.

 

[LE6END]

I feel I can assist you more in telling you what not to do.

The number one killer? Over-analyzation. Don't think too much, and certainly do not ponder on her every action or if she likes you. You will destroy yourself.

Instead, control your endeavor. Resume things at a steady, but expedient pace. I, normally, within seven days end the speculation. As in, i find out where interest in me lies. Whether that be indirectly---I simply assume she likes me, and behave as if she geniunely does without truly knowing. This is referrred to as a self-fulfillling prophecy, and it will make your efforts to attain her appear extremely natural and absent of pressure. Or, ofcourse, simply telling her what I am looking for could do the trick either.

Number two killer? Wasting valuable time.

The more you think, the more time is wasted. Do not fear losing her. I am not certain if you've other women on the side, but having one girl at a time can sometimes rest upon you unbarable pressure because you feel you wont come across another woman for months. This can result in being fearful of taking risks. The only fear you should hold is the depletion of your time. So, make moves on her pronto. Kiss her? Its contigent on your natural ability to make girls comfortable with kissing strangers. If you arent there, while walking, play with her hands, rub her waist, or, if you two converse on the phone, or on various social network platforms, engage in dirty talk. If she is receptive to all these efforts, she wants you. If not, she isnt attracted to you. Essentially, through these efforts, you're letting her know you absolutely have no plans of being friends.

Did i mention this should all be done atleast no later than two weeks after meeting her? Preferrably one. The conclusive point is to make your move the first opportunity that opens up.
Also, make her chase you . This will greatly save you time. Give her your number instead of you receiving her, and tell her to call/text you. If she is interested, she will. If you never hear from her after that, you have got your answer once again.

Good luck.

 

[sinnerman]

I feel I can assist you more in telling you what not to do.

The number one killer? Over-analyzation. Don't think too much, and certainly do not ponder on her every action or if she likes you. You will destroy yourself.

Instead, control your endeavor. Resume things at a steady, but expedient pace. I, normally, within seven days end the speculation. As in, i find out where interest in me lies. Whether that be indirectly---I simply assume she likes me, and behave as if she geniunely does without truly knowing. This is referrred to as a self-fulfillling prophecy, and it will make your efforts to attain her appear extremely natural and absent of pressure. Or, ofcourse, simply telling her what I am looking for could do the trick either.

Number two killer? Wasting valuable time.

The more you think, the more time is wasted. Do not fear losing her. I am not certain if you've other women on the side, but having one girl at a time can sometimes rest upon you unbarable pressure because you feel you wont come across another woman for months. This can result in being fearful of taking risks. The only fear you should hold is the depletion of your time. So, make moves on her pronto. Kiss her? Its contigent on your natural ability to make girls comfortable with kissing strangers. If you arent there, while walking, play with her hands, rub her waist, or, if you two converse on the phone, or on various social network platforms, engage in dirty talk. If she is receptive to all these efforts, she wants you. If not, she isnt attracted to you. Essentially, through these efforts, you're letting her know you absolutely have no plans of being friends.

Did i mention this should all be done atleast no later than two weeks after meeting her? Preferrably one. The conclusive point is to make your move the first opportunity that opens up.
Also, make her chase you . This will greatly save you time. Give her your number instead of you receiving her, and tell her to call/text you. If she is interested, she will. If you never hear from her after that, you have got your answer once again.

Good luck.

thanks..i definitely don't have oneitis for her. will keep the tips you gave in mind.