"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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heres the deal, i went out wit this chick once. she stopped returning my phone calls afterwards for some bull ish or another(tells me she had fun and kissed me before tho). anyway a few weeks later i started goin out wit one of her friends. now the ***** wants to talk to me all of a sudden and keeps talkin bout me. its funny cuz complitely ignore her. most i do is wave. how would you guyz handle the situation
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What is the outcome you want? Do you want to date her or do you want her to stop talking about you? I mean you are dating her friend. Women have a level of competition and hate for each other. She may want to date you to steal you from her friend[men worry about strangers tapping it, women worry about their friends].
 
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na i dont really want any thing ta do wit her anymore. yea she looks good but from the way she acted b4 her attitude sucks. if anything id jus hit it and quit it but i don even wanna do that so much anymore. and its not the normal "how is he" kinda thing. its more along the lines of "hows he in bed" and curious bout what we do. i think shes just bein a nosey ***** thats mad she missed out
 
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