The August Sky
Don Juan
hey guys. My name is Jack, i found the site which was cross linked i believe from iwforums (the ladder theory page). It suggested a man named pook and some wise things he had written..i checked it out and looked at the number of threads immediately when i came to the page..the forum seems to be pretty active and i dont see a lot of petty b.s. going on (im not new to forums i visit three daily) i checked some advice out and a good bit of it made me think about things. it was worthy IMO so i copied and pasted it into a word file to read for later reference.
about me..im 21 in nursing school spent two years in the navy visited 3 countries and 6 states during that time. I'd consider myself a typical college student..i have my ups and downs but who doesnt? not trying to make this a auto biography but just saying hello because i plan to be active here..and plan to share what i can. and i also plan to read read and then read some more.
the posts i mentioned that made me want to sign up were from a guy named Tyler Durden i cant remember if he is a member here or on IW...its 4 am here and im too lazy to check lol.. but here is what started it for me..again NOT my work.
Excerpts from a PM conversation I have going…
A member asked me how he could find out what women want so he can adapt himself to the situation and attract them better.
My response,
It's a trap! I fell into it. You are trying to figure out a way to get women to like you. The secret is to become who you want.
There is allot of talk in the community about value. Guys go around trying to pump their value with clothing, gambits, gadgets, lines, styles, etc. Yet real value comes from doing what you are really good at; something you truly believe in; because that is the only way you’ll reach a level higher than anyone else.
Guys know this! But they get greedy. They are turned off this philosophy because they want every woman in the world. They want to go big! Whats the point of being good enough for just a select group of girls? "I can do better" we say, I know, I did.
Think of Hennessy Timeless. A product of exquisite quality. The most expensive cognac in the world. It has a tiny market share. Yet the fact is that everyone in the world that knows about it and wants a taste. They may not be able to afford it. They may think it's out of their league. They may pretend like they don't care. If given a chance one will turn down an opportunity for a taste.
We’ve heard of Johnny Soporno. Johnny is a bottle of Hennessy. He may not fit the role of a man in everyone woman's life but many girls would like a taste, if nothing more. The select few women who do accept him into their lives are perfect for him.
Cultivate genuine value.
From my own personal experience I have caught allot more fish sticking to my guns and doing what I do best than trying to adapt myself for women's needs.
When you believe in yourself. When you believe that what you have is of genuine value to women then you will have real confidence and women will see that and want to experience what you have to offer.
So how do you start? I know that was my sticking point at first. I didn’t know what the first step was. I wasn't a virgin and had a decent amount of ****ing under my belt unlike allot of guys who come into the Community for help but my results weren't any better. I fell apart and for a good year though that I would never find another girl. I perceived that I had no value to give.
I think that everyone should start with understanding solidified by experience.
First you read about women wanting to be naughty little sluts. Then you go out and put yourself into situations where you get confirmation that women want to be sluts.
This is key. You have to experience it. It's like riding a bike for the first time. You can read about it. You have people confirm it for you. You even see people ride it with your own eyes. You look at it and think, "but it can't even stand up by itself, how am I supposed to stay up on it never mind move forward". When you finally get on the seat you are asking yourself if you might be the first person in the entire world that can't ride a bike. Then you experience it and attain confidence.
Experience is key. As Flame always says so very wisely, the field is king.
Once you start doing this you will naturally be drawn to certain aspects of femininity. I was immediately drawn to women’s submissiveness and repressed sexuality. I wanted to be surrounded by naughty kittens. I started cultivating aspects of myself that complimented these traits. I became sexual, dominant and accepting. It takes surprisingly little effort to make oneself stand out from the plebs. Girls that wanted these things started paying attention to me.
Thats the path I would recommend to guys who are new at the game. Focus. Find out your personal value. Cultivate that value though knowledge and experience. Get in the field - obviously.
Cheers.
about me..im 21 in nursing school spent two years in the navy visited 3 countries and 6 states during that time. I'd consider myself a typical college student..i have my ups and downs but who doesnt? not trying to make this a auto biography but just saying hello because i plan to be active here..and plan to share what i can. and i also plan to read read and then read some more.
the posts i mentioned that made me want to sign up were from a guy named Tyler Durden i cant remember if he is a member here or on IW...its 4 am here and im too lazy to check lol.. but here is what started it for me..again NOT my work.
Excerpts from a PM conversation I have going…
A member asked me how he could find out what women want so he can adapt himself to the situation and attract them better.
My response,
It's a trap! I fell into it. You are trying to figure out a way to get women to like you. The secret is to become who you want.
There is allot of talk in the community about value. Guys go around trying to pump their value with clothing, gambits, gadgets, lines, styles, etc. Yet real value comes from doing what you are really good at; something you truly believe in; because that is the only way you’ll reach a level higher than anyone else.
Guys know this! But they get greedy. They are turned off this philosophy because they want every woman in the world. They want to go big! Whats the point of being good enough for just a select group of girls? "I can do better" we say, I know, I did.
Think of Hennessy Timeless. A product of exquisite quality. The most expensive cognac in the world. It has a tiny market share. Yet the fact is that everyone in the world that knows about it and wants a taste. They may not be able to afford it. They may think it's out of their league. They may pretend like they don't care. If given a chance one will turn down an opportunity for a taste.
We’ve heard of Johnny Soporno. Johnny is a bottle of Hennessy. He may not fit the role of a man in everyone woman's life but many girls would like a taste, if nothing more. The select few women who do accept him into their lives are perfect for him.
Cultivate genuine value.
From my own personal experience I have caught allot more fish sticking to my guns and doing what I do best than trying to adapt myself for women's needs.
When you believe in yourself. When you believe that what you have is of genuine value to women then you will have real confidence and women will see that and want to experience what you have to offer.
So how do you start? I know that was my sticking point at first. I didn’t know what the first step was. I wasn't a virgin and had a decent amount of ****ing under my belt unlike allot of guys who come into the Community for help but my results weren't any better. I fell apart and for a good year though that I would never find another girl. I perceived that I had no value to give.
I think that everyone should start with understanding solidified by experience.
First you read about women wanting to be naughty little sluts. Then you go out and put yourself into situations where you get confirmation that women want to be sluts.
This is key. You have to experience it. It's like riding a bike for the first time. You can read about it. You have people confirm it for you. You even see people ride it with your own eyes. You look at it and think, "but it can't even stand up by itself, how am I supposed to stay up on it never mind move forward". When you finally get on the seat you are asking yourself if you might be the first person in the entire world that can't ride a bike. Then you experience it and attain confidence.
Experience is key. As Flame always says so very wisely, the field is king.
Once you start doing this you will naturally be drawn to certain aspects of femininity. I was immediately drawn to women’s submissiveness and repressed sexuality. I wanted to be surrounded by naughty kittens. I started cultivating aspects of myself that complimented these traits. I became sexual, dominant and accepting. It takes surprisingly little effort to make oneself stand out from the plebs. Girls that wanted these things started paying attention to me.
Thats the path I would recommend to guys who are new at the game. Focus. Find out your personal value. Cultivate that value though knowledge and experience. Get in the field - obviously.
Cheers.
