zzirf25 said:
Basically it boils down to which relationship you value more. I was in a very similar situation a couple of years ago. My best friend had been dating a girl for 3 years and he had cheated on her a few times throughout their relationship and I knew about it. During the time that they were together, me and his girl had became very good friends.
One day she had heard from one of her friends about his infidelity and her friend told her that I knew about it too. Sure enough she asked me about it and I told her the truth because I do not like to lie to people. This cost me a friendship with a dude that I had been friends with since childhood and that I considered family. You need to think long and hard about this and decide which relationship is worth losing because you will lose one.
like, this isn't even up for discussion.
when people say "bros before hoes" I think more along the lines, that don't chase a girl that your guy is going after.
but that **** there, that's like a death penalty in the bro hand guide.
i knew everything both my best friends did. I know all the girls they both talked on the side and them myself. you don't know how many freaking times i got calls or i ran into one of them, and especially in high school, because we all ran in the same circles, i would get calls from, especially one because i happened to date her cousin, and they would call me on three way, and hell by the time they were done with me the would think they had the best BF on earth.
'cheating, are you freaking serious, that dude is crazy about you, girl GTFO of here with that talk'. it was almost a game to see how much we could talk the other one up. i don't give a damn how red handed either was caught I'm sticking up for my boys and that's all there is to it. NO woman is worth that.
their GF's would come over my house often and they knew nothing was going to happen. we didn't roll like that.
and it works both ways, like a good reference. I remember this one girl was basically living at my place she was over so much and there was another girl that i liked but as well, and she saw my two friends out one night and by the time they were done with her, she damn near thought i was ready to propose lol, even though i basically stopped answering her calls because
one of them, dated one girl off and on, from the 8th grade, basically until we were in our early 20's. We all went to the same school, i know her family, she knows mine, visa versa, etc... and until the last time i saw her, hell he could be knee deep in some at that moment, "hell no girl what you talking about".. she doesn't even bother asking anymore. you ain't getting **** out of us. If you get caught up it's going to be some some stuff you did.
that's what freaking friends do for each other.
ps- monica on the asian escort site could get bent over a table
