"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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broken up for good (thou shalt never date thy neighbor)

phillyb

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And thank GOD. Well me and my girlfriend broke up about a week ago....last night i accidentaly ran into her coming down the stairs with her ex boyfriend at her side. Very f-cking weird moment! What's more is, we are neighbors, and I still have some sh-t up at her place that i would like back...cd's and a dvd. The problem is, I don't want to see her ever again...much less talk to her.....the last time we talked she was cold anyway. So...should i leave a note at her door asking her to just leave my **** at the doorstep? I really need to move!



PS....never ever ever date your neighbor.....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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