"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bro split: Chest, Back, Legs vs Chest/Back, Legs, Shoulders/Arms

Chamber36

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I made MASSIVE gains on Arnold's blueprint to cut (stayed in phase 1 for 6-8 weeks just increasing weight and slowing the reps down a bit to switch it up).

Then I had lost some of those gains because of school and stuff.

Now since new years I've been trying Arnold's Blueprint to mass. But I find the volume to simply be too high. Also because I took a break I don't think my body's ready for it. Been getting lower back pain from the deadlifts. I had basically not done any deadlifts either for months during the Blueprint to cut, now that I think of it.

So yesterday I decided to just do chest while ignoring the back. I feel as though this might be better for an intermediate like myself. 6ft 1, 190 lbs. I feel as though I'll be taking some of the strain off my spine that I get while doing all the exercises antagonistically a la Arnold.

Feel like I've never had such a good chest workout since I can just focus 100% on chest. Tomorrow I'll be doing back, and I'll let you guys know what that routine looks like and how I feel afterwards.

Only downside to this specific brosplit would be that there's no arm/shoulder day, but I'd be doing chest/back/legs twice a week. Opinions please for a person of my size/weight/strength. I can bench more btw if I go lower reps, I just don't.

Anyways tell me ur opinions please.

So here's the routine:

Bench
Reps 30 12 10 8 6
KG 40 50 55 57.5 60

Incline Bench
Reps 30 12 10 8 6
KG 30 37.5 40 42.5 45

Flies
Reps 30 12 10 8 6
KG 10 12 14 16 18

Dips
Reps 30 12 10 8 6
KG body weight with big rubber bands

Cable crossover chest fly (upper pec)
Reps 30 12 10 8 6
KG 5 7.5 10 12.5 15

Dumbbell pullover
Reps 30 12 10 8 6
KG 16 18 20 22 24

Hanging leg raise
4 x 25
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Arnold was a guy who could afford to work out for a full time job, PLUS he was on gear.

If you have those luxuries his routine is the goods, if not, there is nothing wrong with a bro split for an intermediate.
 

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Chest/Triceps
Back/Biceps/Forearms
Legs/Shoulders
Abs 3x weekly
10 minute cardio warm-up
 

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That's the best bro-split?

I been slowly modifying it cuz I don't want to neglect shoulders/arms, which I basically don't have in there right now. I'll see what I do.
 

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That's the best bro-split?

I been slowly modifying it cuz I don't want to neglect shoulders/arms, which I basically don't have in there right now. I'll see what I do.
Are you referring to what I posted?

It works best for me. I can hit each body part twice a week, hard, with 2 days rest between.
Monday is chest and triceps (abs)
Tuesday is back and biceps/forearms
Wednesday is legs and shoulders (abs)
Repeat Thursday-Saturday
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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