"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bringing a camera to a club

milton

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Hey im ****ing insecure and i have a small penis I think it might be just a big **** but either way ... haha jp jp...

Ok seriously I was thinking about bring a camera to the club but it seems like its more of a female thing to do (call it stereotypes, stigmas, etc) but i dont know how comfortable I would be carrying it around and taking pictures because it just seems a little creepy, especially because you have limited time to build rapport with the women that you meet.

What are you guyss experience on this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bigshot

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Use your phone camera?
 

Deadly_Assassin

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are u going with ur mates? if yes, then you can always get hot chicks to take your photo with all ur mates. Don't ask her to be in it. Dats what most guys do.

It gives u a chance to start a conversation with her or just give her a peck on the cheek and say thanx and carry on having fun with ur mates.
 

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I was thinking about slipping our homegirls the camera to take the pics, this way its less creepy and it seems more natural because everyone is being asked to be in the picture
 
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