Break up - Calling in the troops

[darksprezzatura]

Next.

This one is wrap IMO.

Take away is this never ever take this frame with a woman. Within normal behavior that is.
Never apologies. Find a different way to frame it. But from your post you got way too many things going on here it doesn't even matter.

She reached out…

 

[darksprezzatura]

Ok and?

She still loves me. We aren’t getting into a relationship back tho. I’m spinning plates working out eating right. Making more cash (appraisal) meanwhile

 

[bat soup]

Yeah that was a huge thing. She didn’t file charges against that guy as far as I know.

I’m glad you zoned in on the exact issue which I considered the biggest red flag and imo a dealbreaker.

But just for curiosity’s sake, why do you think it’s a huge red flag? It’s not like she’s gonna put me in harms way. No way. It’s a dealbreaker for me cuz her unhealed trauma would keep acting up through the life of our relationship

You should ask her whether it was in the mouth, in the ass or in the puzzy. And maybe suggest that if she doesn't want KUM in those places, she shouldn't let guys put their penises in without a condom.

 

[darksprezzatura]

Oh yeah. Got a few dates lined up. Smashing her as well. But I know it in my heart we both got feels. But I’ll still protect myself first.

Yea focus on yourself bruh. She can say that to another dude literally next week.