"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JeffriesMercier

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I am a beginner from Kansas.
Really like this particular website so far and i am getting excited about contributing!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let me be the first to say welcome.
Through your characteristic use of English, am I wrong to assume this isn't your native language?

I'm glad you're happy to have found this store of wisdom, but know you have a long, long journey and one with many bumps -- no, mountains -- along the way.
 
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So, how old are you? Which part of Kansas do you live in? Out in the sticks, or near a big town?
 
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