"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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you heared it before and you will hear it again, you have to perfect your non verbal technequs, verbal is only 5% of attraction. If you belive that the verbal side of attraction is not so important compared to non verbal, well sorry to burst your buble but you are so so wrong!

I am not trying to undemrine the non verbal side which is also ever so important, but i am showing oyu that altohugh most comunication is non verbal, the verbal is very important, after all how could you leave a lasitng impresion over msn if it was not important! i think my storngest and most effective technequs i use are neg hits with C&F, theres are verbal and work wonders, if verbal was not important you would not be able to turn a girl on through talking to her. would you be worying about what to say if it did not matter, well of course not, so why do you, well thats because it does matter.

all the posts here seem to be on how to act and what body language to use, yet there is a lot less on conversation, the body language is very important, it all is, but do your self a favour and do not underestimate the power of good conversation neg hits and C&F, i invite all of you to post your comments on this, i will do a follow up on this another day giving conversation tips aswell as on neg hits and C&F.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Seconded.

You cant spell, you cant punctuate, youre ideas are ill-informed.

HS forum if you must post.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
after all how could you leave a lasitng impresion over msn
By talking to desperate or excessively horny chicks.

All your "lasting impressions on MSN" mean absolutely NOTHING if you have NOT met this girl in real life and had success with her.

I have to agree with the other guys here (although they're being a little too angry with their words). You're 16, from the SECOND you hit this forum you were posting replies to every thread on here, and lots of times you're just reciting stuff from what you've read.

If you're going to follow this up with tips, I think it's fair for us to ask you to not only provide TIPS, but provide EXAMPLES. Stuff that's happened TO YOU, in REAL LIFE (not MSN or AIM) and how you responded to it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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b's nuts, AMF, felix692 you 3 suck, you will complain why there is not enough advice given but thats because if any 1 writes anything people like you flame it and discourage it. Why did you flame it, my guess is you are just frustrated and thought hell hes younger then me why not take my anger out on him AMF and
felix692 you two are even worse, you wanted to post to get your post number up so you copy b's nuts and flame my post, you do not know what to write and are probably total AFC so you write this, then you say my signiture sucks which is just an acuse to say somthing because you KNOW it does not suck. squirrels was constructive im ok with what he said you 3 just posted for the sake of posting to take your anger out on some 1 younger then you, i see this time and time agian, not just to me "what do you know your only 16" if you 3 give me or any one else any of this BS i will report you to the mods.
 

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#1 i could give a fvck about the number of posts I have on this site. I have been checking out these boards for over a year, post where I think my input might be helpful or of any entertainment value. You have been here for 2 months, and your number of posts are climbing fast. Changing your lifestyle to be the man you want to be takes a little bit longer than two months, at least for anyone making real progress, so stop flooding these boards with sh*t you make up. Verbal is 5% of attraction???!!?! Where the hell are you coming up with this shiat? Oh, report me to the mods cuz im looking out for people who are coming to these boards looking for help with creating attraction, not learning sh*t you made up when you finished whacking to your cyber sex session. My first post wasn't a flame, this one is, you whiny B*TCH. Im flying to the UK today to bend your mom over a hand rail, and then you can call me daddy. The only thing i suck is your mom's tits after she drinks a beer off the crack of my ass.

MARK ASS B*TCH.
 

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So, the moron wants to start a flame war.

My post count: 0.79/day

Little boy's post count: 4.79/day



Get away from the computer you childish bag of crap, do you have any f*cking friends in that inbred little 3rd world hellhole your parents couldnt escape from?? You underdeveloped little piece of sh*t, f*cking learn to S-P-E-L-L, thats "spell" not "speeal" f*ckface, and how about living some ACTUAL experiences so, if you ever get your mouth off your dad's c*ck (I doubt it) you MAY actually contribute something other than mindless, poorly ripped-off f*cking drivel, shockingly naive kid-statements and whatever other atrociously ignorant crap youve posted that Ive managed to ignore.

Wimpy little sh*t-faggot.
 

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Someone needs to close this fooking thread, and pronto.

You lot should listen to yourselves, arguing like a bunch of women.

None of you are helping yourselves with this immature bullsh*t.

I think you lot should forget about DJing and worry about making it out of puberty first.
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Someone needs to close this fooking thread, and pronto.
Agreed. Checkmate, not a bad post. Try limiting it to Tips or HS for now though.

B's nuts, AMF, and Felix - If you all like to post on this site, do it nicely or you'll have a nice title of "banned." Flame wars not allowed. If someone else starts one, don't respond. Both people get taken down then.

Consider this a warning for EVERYONE in this thread.

Thread Closed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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