"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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brain damage changing sexuality

horaholic

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I recently read an article about a woman who got in a car crash, with sever head trauma. Apparently the brain damage turned her into a raging nymphomaniac, sex addict. The problem is, she's married , and her husband now gets phone calls from the neighbors while he's at work, telling him how his wife is out in the street trying to fvck anyone who passes by. This was caused by the car crash, so its not her fault. (assuming it isnt a big ploy by her to have an excuse to be a hor, that is.)

Does anyone know of any other stories where head trauma causes wierd sexual side effects? It reminds me of the movie "A dirty shame," where everyone in this small town hits their head, they turn into some weird fetishist (funny fvcking movie BTW) where there is another group called p.r.u.d.e. trying to keep people from having sex.

Anyway, the reason I bring this up, is I was talking to this girl last night, and she was friends with some guy for years, and he always seemed straight as an arrow. She knows lots of gay people, and she is pretty good at spotting them. Anyway, a few months back, this guy gets in a pretty bad motorcycle wreck, and after he recovered, he was a flaming queen all of a sudden. We were trying to figure out if he was gay all along and fooled everyone, or if he hid his gayness from himself and the accident somehow freed him, or if something about the head injury itself might have made him change orientation. Has anyone ever heard of such a thing? I guess it was his birthday last night, and he went to a Village People concert. lol.

I dont know the guy, or really care; I was just curious about braindamage possibly affecting ones orientation. any thoughts, or better yet facts about this phenomenon?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It is within the realm of plausibility.
It is well established that frontal lobe lesions can cause personality changes and disruptions in various aspects of social cognition, leading to inappropriate sexual behaviour or violent or criminal behaviour.

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horaholic said:
I guess it was his birthday last night, and he went to a Village People concert. lol.
I'm not sure why, but your post just sent me into a fit of laughter.
 

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Never heard any such thing before, but I'd love to hear about any research into that area.
 
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