"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Braces at 18 and a hair thing also

johnmich

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2005
Messages
317
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Yorkshire boy
I am probably having braces on as my teeth are quite bad (just the top front 4 but still). Anyone else got / had braces at a late age?
If you start going out n other stuff, this can be embarassing.

Also if you have hair that sticks up do you hav any suggestions?
I get mine done with clipper. People tell me this makes it grow funny and scissor should be used to make it go, erm... normaler.

Any comments at all ?

:confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

johnmich

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2005
Messages
317
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Yorkshire boy
My hair is okay spiked but i look a bit stupid with it shaved. im gonna try the scissor thing next time i get it cut.

Any other comments ??
 

dyce

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 5, 2005
Messages
117
Reaction score
0
Location
Chinatown =p
just to warn u johnmich that u're gonna get alot of hate on these boards for posting stuff like this

people here wanna talk about seduction techniques and field reports and all, they dont wanna know about ur little insecurities and hair problems.

go to the hairdresser and ask the experts wat looks good on u
 

johnmich

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2005
Messages
317
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Yorkshire boy
Sorry if the post is a little complainy.

I have wierd hair and just wanted suggestions.
I get my hair cut at this dodgy little place but just wanted to know what othes might suggest.
 

dyce

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 5, 2005
Messages
117
Reaction score
0
Location
Chinatown =p
then dont go there, go to one in ur CBD or ask where your friends go. ask for something trendy
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
I just got invisalign at 19. They're awesome except they feel kinda weird. No one can even tell unless I point them out. But then again not everyone can use invisalign so ask your orthodontist if you can. Chances are if you waited till you were 18 to get them they're not that bad.

As for the hair just experiment with gels it's kinda hard to tell what you're looking for.
 

Vasa

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2005
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
Location
U.S.A
Originally posted by johnmich
I am probably having braces on as my teeth are quite bad (just the top front 4 but still). Anyone else got / had braces at a late age?
If you start going out n other stuff, this can be embarassing.

Also if you have hair that sticks up do you hav any suggestions?
I get mine done with clipper. People tell me this makes it grow funny and scissor should be used to make it go, erm... normaler.

Any comments at all ?

:confused:
I am 18 and on November 14 is gonnna be an anniversary of me having braces, haha. I still have one year to go.... yeah braces suck when trying to score chix. Lucky for me one of the hottest girls in school had braces herself so we weren't embarased of each other. But in College it kinda sux.... but oh well, i meet a girl here and there who doesn't care about me having braces, also it does bring down my confidence.
 

naoi deag se deag

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 24, 2003
Messages
265
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
Herts
Everyone should have braces. Props to you for getting it done and you're gonna thank yourself when you get them off. As for the hair, clippers make your hair stick up because they don't let the hair lay naturally when it's done. Do you have "corners" on the back of your head? The solution is to get scissored all over the head. If you go anywhere halfway decent to get your hair done, you can probably force them to use scissors. You'll like the results a lot better too.
 

johnmich

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2005
Messages
317
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Location
Yorkshire boy
that is a reply i wanted but i know now, that this thread is a bit pointless. I was just investigating the scissor/clipper thing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

quest

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2003
Messages
1,176
Reaction score
0
get braces now.

serious picking up will not start until you're atleast the age of 21..

I need braces. I never worried about it at 15.

at 18 i thought it was too late, but looked into it anyway. Mum said she couldn't afford it, and I had no money.

I'm no 22. and my teeth are the thing i'm by far most self concious about. I'm still able to pick up HB7+ girls on 90% of the nights i sarge. So straight teeth are not the be all and end all. But i'd love to have straight teeth.

Sure it would have cost me 20-40 pickups, and probably 4-5 sex. + slowed the development of my game. But I think I could have quickly recovered once they were off.

We'll never know.

I won't ever get them now.

(also I looked into invisalign. That can only help minor issues.)
 
Top