If you watch boxing you'll recognize a good cornerman. He's the one that gives his fighter one good piece of advice in between each round, instead of trying to cram his head full of stuff he won't remember. By focusing on that one tip his guy may be able to turn the fight around.
I'm using that same logic on dates. I had a couple last week and before each one I thought of one or two things to work on. Both dates went well, one better than the other. Bottom line is that even if neither one goes anywhere I feel my abilities will be more polished for the next time.
If you're trying to cram 50 tips into your head before approaching someone or going on a date, think of one or two things you normally omit and you'll be more focused.
I'm using that same logic on dates. I had a couple last week and before each one I thought of one or two things to work on. Both dates went well, one better than the other. Bottom line is that even if neither one goes anywhere I feel my abilities will be more polished for the next time.
If you're trying to cram 50 tips into your head before approaching someone or going on a date, think of one or two things you normally omit and you'll be more focused.