"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Rules

You have a box in front of you, in order to see the value inside, you must open it. It can be $1, $10, $100, $1,000 .... $10 ^ n. In order to open the box next to it, you must discard the box you currently have. The prize for the next box may be lower or higher value than what you have now.
Having 2 open boxes would be cheating.

The Catch

There is an infinite number of boxes.

The Outcome

As long as you know there is another box waiting for you, you will never be 100% satisfied with the box you currently have.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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donking

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Box values inevitably decay over time due to inflation.
 

Purefilth

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BeginningDJ said:
The Rules

You have a box in front of you, in order to see the value inside, you must open it. It can be $1, $10, $100, $1,000 .... $10 ^ n. In order to open the box next to it, you must discard the box you currently have. The prize for the next box may be lower or higher value than what you have now.
Having 2 open boxes would be cheating.

The Catch

There is an infinite number of boxes.

The Outcome

As long as you know there is another box waiting for you, you will never be 100% satisfied with the box you currently have.
kinda sums up my attitude towards past ltrs/strs:crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VladPatton

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I don't like this box...I'm nexting it!
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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The next box is always better then the last box. But this box is keeping me happy for now !
 

JohnnyStorm

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An infinite version of Deal or No deal?
I'd probably carry on until the banker called and made me a decent offer :D
 

Down Low

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BeginningDJ said:
Having 2 open boxes would be cheating.
I can live with cheating.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sageproduct

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I tried to stick my **** in the box. Unfortunately, it didn't let me. Now, I fall asleep crying every night dreaming about finding the perfect, right angular, grandly cubic box.
 
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The outcome above with the possibility your partner can change years from now, what would a LTR provide? Comfort and compatibility aside.
 
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