"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheeAlphaMale05

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ok so long story short. theres this girl hb9 that i was talkin to before... she would text me n write on my facebook everyday for no reason but wenever i wud try to hang out she wud be "busy" so i jus nexted her cuz i had oneitis n felt i was caught in the friendzone but lately i been tryin to get her back. how? haha the master plot :)

1. I shut her out - I basically jus shut her out of my life for the week when we had a break. didnt answer any facebook comments, texts nothing.. wasnt that hard cuz i was havin fun of my own ;)

2. I cant ignore her in school cuz we have this one class where we sit with eachother everyday, the teacher has us workin in pairs everyday so completly ignoring her is tough.. so wat i did was have us sit next to sum of my other girl targets in the class hb8 and hb6 and show them attention while igoring and neggin her

3. I talked about my experiences wit other girls, basically itd be like
hb9: blah blah blah
me: o rly? haha jus last week i was chillen wit this girl and she was tryin to tell me the same thing
hb9: Who?
me: o u prolly dont know her
hb9: who is it
me: look at you being all nosey n ****! (shake my head) u kno jess
h9: jess blah blah yea i kno her
me: oh well anyway she....(continue)
I wud slip in any experiences whenever i cud fit it in... nothing canned nothing rehearsed
idk... but i find it weird that i always talk about my experiences wit girls but she never talks about hers...maybe shes lesbian? hmmm i shud neg her about that... oh back to the list

4. Theres this hb10 that likes me but shes jus a ***** to tell u the truth... dont feed me that why dont u jus hit it cuz she not like that. n i dont rly feel like puttin in all that work n dealin wit her bull. she calls me her husband all the time but i go along with it to make other girls jealous. wen i realized i didnt wanna game her anymore i started acting nice to her as opposed to negging other girls. i wud tell her i love her n write her love raps..lmao a lot of girls wud complain "how come u treat her so gud but ur always trynna play me?" mission accomplished :)
- so anyway in class the other day hb6 was lookin through my rhymebook (i actually write i dont jus write love raps) n she found the one i wrote for hb10. im talkin to my target n she interrupts:

hb6: u wrote hb10 a rap?
me: huh? yeah..(and i jus kept talking then my target interrupts me)
target: What? u wrote hb10 a rap? (lmao i cud see the jealousy in her eyes. it kinda looked like this ----> D:< )
me: yea..(n i kept talkin again and im interrupted again)
target: Wheres my rap?
me: ur rap? oh! see..wat had happened was....(i jus stopped looked at her n smiled)
target: please.. i bet my names not even in that book (n she breaks eye contact and started writing in her notebook)
me: haha ur nose curls up wen u get jealous (some kino)
target: i Hate you
me: love you too..so anyway (n i jus wnt on wit the story i was telling)

5. after class she would always wait for me n walk wit me cause our next classes r next to each other. before wen we wud walk down the halls everybody wud say hi to me and try to dap me up, i wud jus say hi and keep talkin to the target. but now i stop and talk to people along the way. she waits while i talk to guys but she jus keeps walkin wen i talk to girls

7. I dont text, call or facebook at all, if she wanna talk she can start. but still wenever she texts me or writes on my facebook i answer one time, two at most then i jus stop talking unless its rly important. she still never calls me tho..idk

8. i can tell this girl absolutly hates it wen i talk about hb10 from earlier.. so wat do u think i do? haha i truly am an *******! last time i tell her about an experience wit another girl i sed
"shhhh dont tell hb10, she already thinks i flirt too much as it is" and she sed
"oh...thanx for tellin me that"
i kinda felt bad atfter that cuz i sensed she was sad but i jus remembered all the stuff she put me through wen i had oneitis for her

but yea i think i sparked interest back wit this girl..
how do you guys think i shud shud handle it from here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BananaSmile

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Cool story (lololol at 6 i didnt even notice)
it just would ruin it if became more than fbs with her :(
 

TheeAlphaMale05

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haha thanx im jus havin a lot of fun, i dont really care about outcome much
i got plenty others ;)
 

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Take her out somewhere, then fvck her brains out
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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