"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bought weights, started routine but ???

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Alright - I decided to make a change about my appearance. Mainly building muscle. I'm a 32 year pip squeak. :D

I'm 5'8" 173 pounds. I would like to put on about twenty pounds, the healthy way. I've decided to do the deadlift/bench/squat routine. I know you will advise to eat alot and make sure it's protein. I fvcken hate mcdonalds!

Is this way of gaining weight considered bulking? I really took to Warbosses posts (now he's not here) about not to consider cutting or bulking, just focus around the big three.

Once I get going I will start a journal.

P.S. What would you consider a reasonable time frame to accomplish this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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brucevangeorge said:
dont forget dips, chins, pullups and rows so you are balanced
Yeah, the machine I bought doesn't have a dip bar. This sucks. Any other work out that will accomodate?

My set consists of bench with the leg thingy, 300 pound olympic weight set, lat tower, squat rack and I'm sure some other things that I have no idea about.
 
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ntssv said:
Yeah, the machine I bought doesn't have a dip bar. This sucks. Any other work out that will accomodate?

My set consists of bench with the leg thingy, 300 pound olympic weight set, lat tower, squat rack and I'm sure some other things that I have no idea about.
You can do dips if youve got two benches a few feet from each other.

You put feet on one and hands on other and dip your ass until it touches ground and push back up and repeat.

Do you know what I mean?
 

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brucevangeorge said:
You can do dips if youve got two benches a few feet from each other.

You put feet on one and hands on other and dip your ass until it touches ground and push back up and repeat.

Do you know what I mean?
I gotcha... I don't have two benches but have four chairs and one bench. Understood.

Oh, bye the way - your sig. is distracting :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you follow WAs material then you're bound to see some good results.
 

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Yes, the diet is stressed. Yes protein is key. No, it's not as key as you think. In almost every fitness thread that I've replied to, I've mentioned Advanced Sports Nutrition. So much in fact, I think they should pay me for being a form of advertising. Anyways, check out the book read it.
 

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Good luck and respect to you for deciding to make a change! Just keep at it, turn it into a lifestyle and you will see results!

I don't think it would be a bad idea for you to throw yourself into a bulking regieme and go all out on making gains. Diesel's guide worked exceptionally well for me. I never kept track of my weight, but speaking roughly, I went from thin to athletic within about 2-3 months and by 5 months I was huge.

Unlike a lot of guys here, I focused purely on gains, not strength, so I rarely worked with anything above a 120lb barbell and 60lbs dumbells. I also worked out from home most days.
 
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