Boring dates work BEST for me...how? read on

[skip2mylou781]

Ok, so after meeting up with yet another girl from myspace (3rd one in last 4 days), i realized something about the kind of dates I go on with girls.

I must say, that usually the best dates for me (aka the ones that result in me gettin lotsa action) are also the most BORING POSSIBLE DATE IDEAS.

Last night, I picked her up, we drove somewhere, pulled over, and just sat in the car and talked. Thats right, that was it.After 2 hours of talkin, we started makign out passionately for a while, and then I took her home.....we made plans for her to sleep over my place in 3 days b4 i took her home tho - YES, THATS AN INVITATION FOR SEX.

Guys, this girl has a pretty face, itd say an 8/10, and a real nice body, prob 8 too, so wat i am saying is, i gave an HB8 probably the most boring "date" yet we hit it off REALLY well.

Makes me feel bad for all you guys trying to use action dates or even dinner or movies to get girls to like u and all u end up with is just that - ACTIOn but NOT sexual action.


I am making these statements not based on this ONE experience....because when I think back to the past, I have had probly over a dozen "car" dates with HB 7s - 9s, all basically going the same....we r just sitting there, maybe listenign to music, talking, and then quickly escalates to making out and some of the girls ended up being my gf's, while otheres i just ****ed..................and I compare this to ALL THOSE WASTED DATES where I went bowling, pool, beach, dinner, most of the time those just go nowhere for me.


I actually dont even know how to explain this, but DATES DONT WORK

 

[GloriouslyInsane]

Dude,you may think that these "car dates" are boring but they are not,boring dates are where you're being held back by the surroundings (movies,restaurant),you go on a date 90% for each other and 10% for what you would actually do on that night for "entertainment".You're unique and without knowing it jump some steps right to "isolation".Usually first dates are to gauge up her interest,lay the bases for the kill and then isolate.When you know a girl is interested in you ,you can skip em all together.

 

[spider_007]

it makes sence....

if you lookin in the online profiles, lot of gurls have writen down as ideal date; walking by the river (beach) and dinner....

What they are looking for is to get to know you and to flirt. You know what i'm talking about...the teasing, talking...telling interasting storrys.....they want that comfort....

If your not a good talker and arn't the kind of personality that can stop a person in the middle of the street and have a 2 hour converstion with them full of laughter....then action dates are for you.

Action dates break the ice.... funny things happen during ..... it gives you two something to talkabout..... it makes her relax, and you don't have to try as hard.

 

[JC9]

Makes me feel bad for all you guys trying to use action dates or even dinner or movies to get girls to like u and all u end up with is just that - ACTIOn but NOT sexual action.

I actually dont even know how to explain this, but DATES DONT WORK

Hmm, let's see. Last 3 girls I had sex with on the first date were from 1) Coffee 2) Dinner 3) Pool

They were all dates. Every single one led to heading back to my house a couple of hours later and having sex.

The idea of sitting in a car talking to a girl for 2 hours sounds boring as hell. If I need a couple of hours to get them primed for sex, it's for damn sure going to be an activity or location I can actually enjoy while I am with the girl.

Dates do work, and if you take her to a couple of places during the same 'date' you can enhance the comfort/rapport and have sex much quicker.

To the OP, how many of those car 'dates' has resulted in sex that same night?

You're right about one thing though, traditional dating doesn't work; In the sense that you try and win her affection through great dates and then hope she gives it up to you. The activity is secondary to your actions and seduction during the time you spend with her.

If you can succesfully close from a 2hr car date, great; I prefer something where I can fluctuate my attention to her, kino in different ways, and actually enjoy my time out.

 

[skip2mylou781]

lol we kino'ed while talking, btw i let her do 90% of the talking....that old rule is very imporatnt in conversation as she proved that girls LOVE to talk about themselves, and she did tell me she thinks im hot, so really technically, not much game was needed for this one

 

[WhitePimp]

I've really come to learn that it doesnt matter what you do, if the girl's into you and you're being awesome, then you could hang out at your grandmother's house and still make it an excellent time. I think the key is making sure that no matter what, YOU'RE having fun...which is where action dates are usually good. If you're both into the convo and both having an awesome time that leads to more, then talking in a car becomes the LEAST BORING date idea possible for you guys...it's all subjective.

 

[Socialreject]

Ok, that's great...

But it's still boring

I actually like to have some FUN on a date instead of putting all hopes on the fact that you can fvck her afterwards and get your fun that way.

 

[skip2mylou781]

apparently it was fun for her cuz and i quote she said "im hanging on to ur every word, im glad im gettign to know you".....and i do think she had plenty of fun making out and flirting with me too, the only thing that was boring was the IDEA.....but for some reason it always works out for me.....its almost as if you KNOW a girl is a keeper if shes into when ur just sittin there talkin instaed of "taking her out".....cuz action date or not, if ur takin a girl out on a date, then ur still spendin $$........but it shows the girl isnt a ***** and is genuinigly interested in u if shse cool with a boring lil date where all u do is talk and make out