"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bootie call with the ex?

cave dweller

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Guys,

I need some advice here:

The ex is calling me wanting to hook up a couple of times a month for a 'booty call'.

Should I 'hit' it once in awhile or tell her to buzz off?

cave dweller
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Legend

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c'mon...you know better...tell her to buzz off
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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If You sure You wont fall in love, just have sex with her and enjoy!

c'mon...you know better...tell her to buzz off
Ha, they're both right.
 

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Originally posted by cave dweller
Guys,

I need some advice here:

The ex is calling me wanting to hook up a couple of times a month for a 'booty call'.

Should I 'hit' it once in awhile or tell her to buzz off?

cave dweller

Hell yes. I bang my ex-wife down to a nub every few weeks and do everything to her that I should have done while married.

After I drop the chowder she gets up and leaves. What's more exhillerating than that?

No fuss no muss!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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shiningshadow

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Eh, I'd do it, just don't fall in love like MightyMate said.
 

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I personally dont go back with ex's....its completely pointless and always left me with an empty feeling...its really not worth everything that comes along with it. Finding another girl that you connect with it much more fulfilling.

But the choice really is up to you
 
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