"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BootCamp Week 4

Brian20o2

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Listen up maggots! Nah just messin. This is week 4 in our BC http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=94667 . We now are able to go out and meet and have conversations with HBs we would convider dating. 10 rejections is the goal, and you should collect alot of numbers also. Good luck and don't give up.

EDIT: For me this is week 3 but I'll post here anyways.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IS|Reinhart

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Brain i think that you should try week #4 with us i don really see big difference between week 3 and 4.

Got 1 rejection 2 phone numbers on monday. Getting rejections is HARD. For them its better to give u phone number and email rather than saying sory i can't. One even gave me phone number and then warned that she has a BF
 

Brian20o2

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Ok Ill try... I just need to find time to go out and get slapped between drivers ED, school, HW and all the other stuff I gotta do. Good luck people. Lets get rejected!!!
 
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