"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Boom Shakalaka!

TheManlyMan

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so before I went on vacation (where I partied uncontrolably; waking up to take a shower with a beer in hand as prime example) I went to breakfast with this one chick. She said she had so much to tell me. Turned out to be about some other dude. The nice breakfast went wrong. IHOP and Dennys and every other breakfast place were packed. McDonalds! At McDonalds we both got chicken nuggets. Dropped her off. Done. Didn't expect to talk w/ her again.

Yesterday I went to a friends house. She gave me a massage and I gave her one as well. I induced a little bit of enjoyment by running my finger tips past some side boob and I massaged her hips with my palms barely brushing her behind before moving to her legs. A little more sensual than friendly in my opinion.

went great and afterwards I wrestled around with the guy who was doing everything he could to AMOG me. He told everyone in the other room about me still giving her a massage blah blah bull**** Anyways he wrestles pretty good, but I'm a submission artist and No Holds Barred fighter. Every other 5-10 seconds I had him tapping/yelling to stop. He gave up. She left w/ a friend. Gave me a hug n kiss on the cheek.


so today I'm calling people up everywhere to find where the party is at. Its dead. NOthing happening anywhere. So I thought Id go out w/ her again, maybe things will change. Shes sad n kind've down. OH ****! IDEA!


I drove down there and bought 6 peice chicken nuggets. Went to her house. Before I went to her door I told her to open it. Walked up and used my well rehearsed line. "I want to cheer you up but Sees candies was closed, as was the jewler; so I got the next best thing" She hugged me for a long time and told me a hug was all she needed. I gave her the bag n told her it was chicken nuggets n she laughed n held me again.

text me later saying I made her day n she loves me n all that.

hahaha hows that for Suave?!?!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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