"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Books on Business Attire

Hockey Playa

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Anyone read any good books, on professional business attire? I work at a bank with clients, and already have a really good start to my business wardrobe, with 2 suits, 8 dress shirts, 10 ties, all really good quality. I would like to further develop my knowledge perhaps by a book. Maybe good tips for matching colours, or what to wear. I think someone mentioned a book called "Dress for success" or something, i guesss i could also potentially just read some GQ stuff. Any suggestions guys?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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There is a book called "the suit" that is a must for any guy who is half serious about the way they dress. Best book you will ever find on men's wardrobe.
 
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