DonJuanabe
Master Don Juan
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Is she interested? You're not sure. Or, to be more precise, you are pretty sure she isn't but you're hoping that you're wrong, right?
Here is a real-life guidepost for you:
I had a date the other day with a girl I'd rate 7.5. Definitely cute but not a hottie, kinda nerdy, casual and not high strung at all. We see each other 50 feet apart and approach. She has a beaming smile across her face and as we get closer I open my arms to hug her and she throws her arms wide. We hug and she squeezes tight, pushing her t*ts against my chest. Note: if a woman hugs you and keeps her t*ts off of you it's a bad sign.
We grab some sandwiches and the conversation is easy. In fact, it's more than easy -- it's often funny. She is laughing and making me laugh. Some minor touching of the hands and she does not pull away. She is giving me sh*t and I am giving her sh*t, all in a playful way.
I grab the check and she asks if she can help pay. I say no this was my idea so I'll pay for it -- she responds that if I won't let her help pay then the second date is on her. Ding, ding, ding!
I send her a playful text a couple days later. She replies back playfully a few hours later. A couple hours later I reply; she replies. I go no contact and she replies a second time a couple hours later. Ding, ding, ding! I call her later and we banter for a bit; I bring up the second date and her schedule is wide open (gee, amazing how that happens) and she suggests we go somewhere near her place.
Do you see what is going on here? As many will advise, when a girl likes you she will make it very clear. No games, no BS, no uncertainty. It's simple, it's easy, and there is no stress or drama. Keep this post in mind when you're trying to figure out what her interest level is -- if you're trying to figure it out it isn't very high and not worth your time and effort.
Here is a real-life guidepost for you:
I had a date the other day with a girl I'd rate 7.5. Definitely cute but not a hottie, kinda nerdy, casual and not high strung at all. We see each other 50 feet apart and approach. She has a beaming smile across her face and as we get closer I open my arms to hug her and she throws her arms wide. We hug and she squeezes tight, pushing her t*ts against my chest. Note: if a woman hugs you and keeps her t*ts off of you it's a bad sign.
We grab some sandwiches and the conversation is easy. In fact, it's more than easy -- it's often funny. She is laughing and making me laugh. Some minor touching of the hands and she does not pull away. She is giving me sh*t and I am giving her sh*t, all in a playful way.
I grab the check and she asks if she can help pay. I say no this was my idea so I'll pay for it -- she responds that if I won't let her help pay then the second date is on her. Ding, ding, ding!
I send her a playful text a couple days later. She replies back playfully a few hours later. A couple hours later I reply; she replies. I go no contact and she replies a second time a couple hours later. Ding, ding, ding! I call her later and we banter for a bit; I bring up the second date and her schedule is wide open (gee, amazing how that happens) and she suggests we go somewhere near her place.
Do you see what is going on here? As many will advise, when a girl likes you she will make it very clear. No games, no BS, no uncertainty. It's simple, it's easy, and there is no stress or drama. Keep this post in mind when you're trying to figure out what her interest level is -- if you're trying to figure it out it isn't very high and not worth your time and effort.